"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Jul 14, 2013 20:20:51 GMT -5
Also, I always feel like the undertone of that message is like..."hi, I would like to potentially be able to text you for sex. But I can't give you a relationship at the moment."
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
I'm not going to turn this in to a thing because this thread is about hair pats to mp. But I cannot believe how insensitive your comment is and I can't not say something.
I'm not going to turn this in to a thing because this thread is about hair pats to mp. But I cannot believe how insensitive your comment is and I can't not say something.
I said it intentionally to be inflaming. Because it's impossible to say without pissing people off. It's like calling someone a cunt, sometimes it works to go to the extreme.
This has to be one of the most ignorant things I have ever read in my entire life.
Yup this is Nick. He is like "you're so cool and I really like you. I love hanging out with you, and that's rare. I REALLY want to be friends with you". Like - he practically begged for my friendship. Kind of makes it worse.
janedoe where are you again? I am kind of bummed that my hair and makeup is ruined and went to waste now lol.
San Jose (northern Cali) I'm guessing like 8 hours
"Everything happens for a reason, people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together." ~Marilyn Monroe
And his explanation...seriously, dude?! Common sense dictates that a woman you've been dating, albeit casually, is not going to be buddy-buddy with you and want to go grab dinner after you tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Dumbass fuckwit....
He's a moron....and you are soooo much better off without his dumb ass! You are amazing and he probably sings songs about fruit salad or something equally lame!
I'm sorry you were hurt:( I may be missing something but I don't find his handling of this as terrible. I mean, it could have been way worse, right? Maybe he sincerely wants to be friends, I totally understand if you don't, though. At least he didn't send a text.
I don't think his being honest was bad, but I think it's weird to break up with someone and then be all "Hey, now we are friends!" Like, give the woman some time to have some feelings about this and decide if she wants to be friends first. It's almost like saying, "What, you aren't over this yet? Because I totally am" and that is a bit hurtful. Don't think that was his INTENT, but I would be hurt by it.
Oh wow, what a bummer! But obviously his loss. I find his insistence on being friends weird too. He should have tried again in a few days rather than thinking you'd be like "Yeah, cool. Thanks for the honesty. Where do you want to eat?"
Ugh. I'm sorry. It sounds like he wanted to come off like he's the nice guy. Ending it but not reeeaaalllly so let's all just be happy!
Sucks to hear that, no matter what. ((hugs))
This is what I was thinking, too. He just didn't want to get his hands dirty. Did you really tell him his explanation was condescending? I bet that took a lot of courage, and I'm glad you did, if only for the benefit of the next relationship when he'll think twice about tossing around platitudes instead of being honest and upfront.
So he broke up with you over the phone, and then had to come over and hash it all out in person too. Lovely. Because omg, he hurt your feelings, so he has to come over and try to help you not feel so bad by offering you not a relationship but just 'access' to him now and again, and maybe if you're lucky! a booty call now and again too, so you don't feel so bad, for how bad he made you feel, so he can feel better about himself or whatEVER. Because omg! he just can't imagine not being FRIENDS, and that's going to help you somehow.
Thank you, but you've helped enough, asshole.
Exactly this.
mp I've admired you on this board for quite some time (I promise in a non-creepy way). You are beautiful. You are funny. You have a great style. Please, don't let this get you down.
Ok, I know this will get you down for a bit but know that this is his loss. Pick yourself up and move on because the best is yet to come.
MP, you are beautiful, talented, brilliant, and have the biggest heart. You deserve someone that is your equal in all these areas and who is ready to put the time and commitment in that makes a relationship work. He did this in a shitty way to make himself feel better, which shows he is definitely not good enough for our MP!
I know it doesn't help, but I'm so sorry it sucks right now. Let yourself have another glass of wine AND some gluten free cookies...
I can't give you what you need. And I think we are going to make great friends. Well, we could give it a few more weeks. Because I love spending time with you and am really attracted to you, but I have a little bit of doubt that it won't work so I don't think I should waste your time.
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SERIOUSLY?! I am so annoyed. A little bit hurt. And crying because that's what I am good at.
Clearly, I deserve better. And in a day or so it's onwards and upwards for me. But right now I'm so bummed, yo. Because I can't believe any of the shit that men say anymore. Because that was so patronizing and makes me angry that he's all "let's be friendsssssss! Gimme a hug!"
Hair pats. Please and thank you.
Ahhhh, I got basically the same text from a guy I liked last weekend.....sucks! HUGS!!! HAIR PATS!!!!
I said it intentionally to be inflaming. Because it's impossible to say without pissing people off. It's like calling someone a cunt, sometimes it works to go to the extreme.
This has to be one of the most ignorant things I have ever read in my entire life.
Not going to post hijack. No response needed.
Are you fucking kidding me? I'm glad someone called you out, @stpete. I haven't checked yet to see if there's another thread started to flame you, but you deserve it.