I'm not going to turn this in to a thing because this thread is about hair pats to mp. But I cannot believe how insensitive your comment is and I can't not say something.
I said it intentionally to be inflaming. Because it's impossible to say without pissing people off. It's like calling someone a cunt, sometimes it works to go to the extreme.
No, no, no. This is NOT like calling someone a Cunt. A Cunt s a part of the female anatomy, while calling someone the R word is making fun of people with a disability. Not. The. Same. You are using a disability as an insult. The two are not comparable. If your vocabulary is so limited, you had to use this word to be inflaming (Which it is inflaming against YOU, by the way)-then you might want to educate yourself and learn some new words.
No, no, no. This is NOT like calling someone a Cunt. A Cunt s a part of the female anatomy, while calling someone the R word is making fun of people with a disability. Not. The. Same. You are using a disability as an insult. The two are not comparable. If your vocabulary is so limited, you had to use this word to be inflaming (Which it is inflaming against YOU, by the way)-then you might want to educate yourself and learn some new words.
It was tic, hence the second sentence. Would it have been better if I said , "he is mentally challenged. wait, that's an insult to mentally challenged people"?
Wait, you don't have to answer. I have heard this debate so many times I can argue your point without you doing it and it's not an interesting enough topic to rehash again. end of replies
No, no, no. This is NOT like calling someone a Cunt. A Cunt s a part of the female anatomy, while calling someone the R word is making fun of people with a disability. Not. The. Same. You are using a disability as an insult. The two are not comparable. If your vocabulary is so limited, you had to use this word to be inflaming (Which it is inflaming against YOU, by the way)-then you might want to educate yourself and learn some new words.
It was tic, hence the second sentence. Would it have been better if I said , "he is mentally challenged. wait, that's an insult to mentally challenged people"?
Wait, you don't have to answer. I have heard this debate so many times I can argue your point without you doing it and it's not an interesting enough topic to rehash again. end of replies
Sorry he tried to manipulate you, so glad you saw right through his BS. 99% sure this the normal routine for him and hopefully karma will make him realize (too late) just how badly he messed up with awesome women like yourself.
His reaction seems so over the top for someone he's gone out with a handful of times. And how awkward that he came over and called? I do have to give him props for not ghosting, I think he at least attempted (although not well) to do the right thing.
Post by stephreloaded on Jul 15, 2013 11:39:51 GMT -5
I'm really sorry MP. At least he was honest and didn't waste as much of your time but I bet it sucks! Without knowing the full story, I feel like he led you on to then only say that he is not interested in a relationship.
Sue Sue, that's exactly my thought process but thought maybe I had been to close to the situation. Ugh. I think KA hit it on the head that he did it all so he could feel like the nice guy. Notsomuch!
I just lurk here but mp I dig you, girl. That guy is an idiot. That lets be best buddies crap really pisses me off.
Hair pets and hugs from the lurking chick!
Aw thank you. Pissed me off, too.
kaneen <3 you. I know by tomorrow night I won't cry (although I'm a frequent crier, so maybe a sad commercial will bring the tears, haha). I will take a short break from dating to gather my shit, and then get back out there.