tell me how much $ I should spend

[iamgrace]

100

[sweetcaroline10]

$100

[annyong]

May 13, 2012 9:04:08 GMT -5 Que? said:

75-100? I don't know, if I've learned anything from the nest its that these things are both regional and a touchy subject. I guess I'm thinking I would send a little bit less than I would if I were attending the wedding.

I definitely agree on it being a regional question. But, that's funny that you would send less than if you were attending. I've always thought the opposite (I don't know why!), that I should send more if I'm not attending b/c I'm saving on all of the money I'd spend if I went to the actual wedding. This is why I love the nest (or proboards)... learn something new every day!

Anyway, I'd probably send $100.

[angelaa73]

I'm cheap so max is $100.

[polarbearfans]

For someone close my husband and I give $100 whether we attend or not. It's what we can afford. If money was tight we would do less probably. The gift should not cause a hardship. For our wedding one guest gave $10. It was what they could afford. No judgements. We were just happy they could attend the wedding.

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May 13, 2012 10:55:36 GMT -5 annyong said:

I definitely agree on it being a regional question. But, that's funny that you would send less than if you were attending. I've always thought the opposite (I don't know why!), that I should send more if I'm not attending b/c I'm saving on all of the money I'd spend if I went to the actual wedding. This is why I love the nest (or proboards)... learn something new every day!

I think the same way. lol.