I don't think we have one yet, but I want to share mine.
H came home from work just before 3PM, sat down on the floor to play with the dog, gave me shit about my homework, and then promptly fell asleep on the floor. I tried to wake him up three times because naps always make him not able to sleep at night, but he was rude and snappy every time so I just left him there. I just went to check on him and he's still out cold. In the middle of our dining room floor. I really don't want to attempt to wake him up again, but it feels kind of mean to leave him on the floor all night.
I have had such a fun day with the kiddo. She was in a fantastic mood from the moment she woke up. It is so rare lately to get that. We had almost zero whining. She was rewarded with lots and lots of play time and kisses <3 I hope it continues tomorrow, because we're going to hang out with FIL and SMIL.
I'm happily eating peanut butter out of the jar. It's a large Costco sized jar, so I have to use my super duper long teaspoon that is meant to be used to mix drinks.
I think he's just exhausted. He works 50 hour weeks of ten hour shifts of physical labor, spends his weekends on his motorcycle, and never gets to bed at a decent hour. He wakes up at 2:45AM so at this point I'm trying to decide whether I should just set an alarm for him and let him sleep through the night out there, or make one more attempt at getting him into the bed.
I just caught up on Dexter and True Blood, now I am sitting in the silent living room sipping my last, lonely glass of wine. H was in the bedroom watching TV, and apparently fell asleep watching his super secret no-one-can-know-about TV show. (WWE:Raw)
Post by pantsparty on Jul 22, 2013 22:43:58 GMT -5
H and I don't have champagne taste; we have Dom Perignon taste. I just added up the cost of the bedding we want for our new place and it is $1,700. ::vomits:: DECORATIVE PILLOWS, Y U NO CHEAP?
The negotiations weren't too bad today. But we have a long ways to go. We're meeting again tomorrow morning. The Employer needs a contract by August 30th, which could work in our favor. Maybe. Hopefully.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I want to go get ice cream or something sweet from the lobby downstairs, but I already took off my work clothes and am just wearing a tshirt. Decisions, decisions.
H and I don't have champagne taste; we have Dom Perignon taste. I just added up the cost of the bedding we want for our new place and it is $1,700. ::vomits:: DECORATIVE PILLOWS, Y U NO CHEAP?
Say what? Take thee to TJ Maxx. Hell, splurge at West Elm.
It's my H. He likes the Frame Laqueur Hotel Collection set. It also includes some 800 count sheets. But for real. That's like the cost of a really nice couch. IT'S JUST BEDDING.
Ds climbed in my bed tonight and I let him. I laid down nursing dd and she fell asleep in between ds and me. They are both sleeping so sweetly and and I'm just staring at them both. I love them so much it actually hurts. Dh came in to put them both back in their bed/crib and I asked him to wait so I could hold them both longer. He gave me the biggest smile, kissed them both and said that he would come to get them after he watched his show and that I could fall asleep holding them if I wanted.
It's my H. He likes the Frame Laqueur Hotel Collection set. It also includes some 800 count sheets. But for real. That's like the cost of a really nice couch. IT'S JUST BEDDING.
That is effing crazy! Also, pls let me sleep w/ youse.
Oh, we are so not going to spend that much. He cray.
He doesn't take anything, OTC or prescription. In the nearly six years I've been with him I've gotten him to go to the doctor exactly two times, and both times took a ridiculous amount of arm twisting. I managed to get him to bed about an hour ago. He woke up while I was taking his boots off, told me he feels bad, tried to tell me he could take the dog for a walk, then argued with me about it until I told him he's obviously sick and being a total ass so he needed to get his butt off the floor and get into bed.
Lol, my h has some pretty crazy ideas about getting silk sheets. I'm all like " no way dude. I sweat like a beast and they'll be ruined in 5 minutes", but he keeps insisting. Plus, silk sheets just seem so icky to me. Like, I might as well own a round spinning bed and a disco ball. Then again, this IS the same guy who wore a suede jacket with tassels for the longest time...
He doesn't take anything, OTC or prescription. In the nearly six years I've been with him I've gotten him to go to the doctor exactly two times, and both times took a ridiculous amount of arm twisting. I managed to get him to bed about an hour ago. He woke up while I was taking his boots off, told me he feels bad, tried to tell me he could take the dog for a walk, then argued with me about it until I told him he's obviously sick and being a total ass so he needed to get his butt off the floor and get into bed.
I'm worried about him.
I'm glad you got him to bed; he really does sound ill. Is his color ok? Feverish? Coughing? That falling asleep so hard, and being hard to wake up, would worry me.
He was a little clammy when I woke him up, but it's stuffy in our house. He didn't feel feverish, normal coloring, no coughing, and he couldn't tell me how he felt bad, just that he felt bad all over. He's always a hard sleeper though. We've had many conversations about how much it sucks for me when he falls asleep on the couch because he's such a bitch to wake up once he's out. That part isn't really new, but sleeping for a solid five hours in the middle of the day is not normal for him. Usually it's two hours max.
I'm going to put this here, instead of hijacking the reunion post bird has going.
My H had a trip to Alaska planned with his brothers and Dad. I got pregnant and it was ectopic. He left on his trip and I went to the doctors and the ER and the doctors again and then again to terminate my pregnancy and then he came back from his trip. He couldn't enjoy his trip, so he said. I was totally grudge-y about that for a long time.
He doesn't take anything, OTC or prescription. In the nearly six years I've been with him I've gotten him to go to the doctor exactly two times, and both times took a ridiculous amount of arm twisting. I managed to get him to bed about an hour ago. He woke up while I was taking his boots off, told me he feels bad, tried to tell me he could take the dog for a walk, then argued with me about it until I told him he's obviously sick and being a total ass so he needed to get his butt off the floor and get into bed.
I'm worried about him.
I hope he can stay home tomorrow and rest. How's his blood pressure (if its ever been checked, lol)
His blood pressure has been fine, the couple of times it's been checked. I doubt he will stay home tomorrow, though I wish that he would. I really think he has just worked himself into exhaustion. He just works so hard and powers through everything. He's 23 so he thinks he's invincible.
Lol, my h has some pretty crazy ideas about getting silk sheets. I'm all like " no way dude. I sweat like a beast and they'll be ruined in 5 minutes", but he keeps insisting. Plus, silk sheets just seem so icky to me. Like, I might as well own a round spinning bed and a disco ball. Then again, this IS the same guy who wore a suede jacket with tassels for the longest time...
I had silk sheets at one point when I lived at home. My favorite type of pj pants are also mostly that slinky microfiber material. Turns out, when you hop into bed with silk sheets and slinky pants, you end up on the floor on the other side.
I'm going to put this here, instead of hijacking the reunion post bird has going.
My H had a trip to Alaska planned with his brothers and Dad. I got pregnant and it was ectopic. He left on his trip and I went to the doctors and the ER and the doctors again and then again to terminate my pregnancy and then he came back from his trip. He couldn't enjoy his trip, so he said. I was totally grudge-y about that for a long time.
:-#
He left you alone to go on a pleasure trip to Alaska, knowing you had an ectopic pregnancy? And then would not come home until you were critically ill?
Jesus. Are you still married to this person?
When he came home all had been resolved. We were in the ER the night before he flew to Alaska. He was fully aware of the state of my health. He's really the best, lol.
He left you alone to go on a pleasure trip to Alaska, knowing you had an ectopic pregnancy? And then would not come home until you were critically ill?
Jesus. Are you still married to this person?
When he came home all had been resolved. We were in the ER the night before he flew to Alaska. He was fully aware of the state of my health. He's really the best, lol.
...You honestly believe that? He left you alone to go on a trip while his wife was dealing with an ectopic pregnancy and the after math. What decent husband leaves his wife during a time like that?
When he came home all had been resolved. We were in the ER the night before he flew to Alaska. He was fully aware of the state of my health. He's really the best, lol.
...You honestly believe that? He left you alone to go on a trip while his wife was dealing with an ectopic pregnancy and the after math. What decent husband leaves his wife during a time like that?
His blood pressure has been fine, the couple of times it's been checked. I doubt he will stay home tomorrow, though I wish that he would. I really think he has just worked himself into exhaustion. He just works so hard and powers through everything. He's 23 so he thinks he's invincible.
Sounds like, poor silly man. What does he do for a living? I hate having to work this hard.
He works in a factory that makes large titanium parts. I think part of the problem is that I've been staying up later to study, since I'm taking classes again, so he's been staying up later without even thinking about it and not getting nearly enough sleep. Is giving your husband a bedtime considered rude? Haha.
Lol, my h has some pretty crazy ideas about getting silk sheets. I'm all like " no way dude. I sweat like a beast and they'll be ruined in 5 minutes", but he keeps insisting. Plus, silk sheets just seem so icky to me. Like, I might as well own a round spinning bed and a disco ball. Then again, this IS the same guy who wore a suede jacket with tassels for the longest time...
I had silk sheets at one point when I lived at home. My favorite type of pj pants are also mostly that slinky microfiber material. Turns out, when you hop into bed with silk sheets and slinky pants, you end up on the floor on the other side.