Hi I'm MP, and I'm transparent

[mcc]

Aww, glad you had a great lunch! If you're not already, you could connect to both via LinkedIn and send the hottie a message that it was nice to meet him, etc.

[cuddlyevil]

I don't think there is anything wrong with sending him a professional thank you note.

[Deleted]

I'd send an email and quite honestly - I did that to DH when I first met him 2 years prior to our second meeting. (I think I told you about that)

[jojoandleo]

Dear Hottie McHotterson,

It was great meeting you and your hotness! I'm hot too. We should get together and do things with our hot parts.

Signed,
Super Professional Email signature.

Email him! And send me his LinkedIn Link (I don't have linked in so he won't know I looked at it) so I can see how cute he is. Thanks!

[locarb]

Go for it!

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Aug 1, 2013 18:59:33 GMT -5 mp said:

Ok so I emailed him. Said it was great to meet him. Have a great time on your international trip to visit family.

He was like "great to meet you too! Can't wait to visit family. Ill be back in CA at the end of the month." Note - he lives in NYC. so, how does one respond to that? We have no team meetings with him, but maybe we do and I just don't know? Say, "awesome. If you wanna grab coffee you know where I work."? No because what if he will be plannin only on a team meeting??

Or... What?

Aren't you going to be in NYC soon??

[jojoandleo]

Aug 1, 2013 18:59:33 GMT -5 mp said:

Ok so I emailed him. Said it was great to meet him. Have a great time on your international trip to visit family.

He was like "great to meet you too! Can't wait to visit family. Ill be back in CA at the end of the month." Note - he lives in NYC. so, how does one respond to that? We have no team meetings with him, but maybe we do and I just don't know? Say, "awesome. If you wanna grab coffee you know where I work."? No because what if he will be plannin only on a team meeting??

Or... What?

I think a nice breezy "Awesome!  Let me know if you need someone to grab coffee/a drink with while you are here."  He can take that as friendly or date-ish, or whatever.  I can't tell you what he meant by saying that.  It seems he wants you to know he will be there.

[jojoandleo]

Aug 1, 2013 19:22:39 GMT -5 mp said:

Aug 1, 2013 19:22:01 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I think a nice breezy "Awesome!  Let me know if you need someone to grab coffee/a drink with while you are here."  He can take that as friendly or date-ish, or whatever.  I can't tell you what he meant by saying that.  It seems he wants you to know he will be there.

I was HOPING you could read his mind, you jerk. Thanks for nuthin'.

My mind is so brain dead, it can't even read itself.  Me talk good.

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Aug 1, 2013 19:11:19 GMT -5 mp said:

Aug 1, 2013 19:09:34 GMT -5 doglove said:

Aren't you going to be in NYC soon??

I don't have dates yet! BUT ... what does it MEAN that he mentioned he will be back out here? hahaha. Just being friendly, like - hey I'll see you with your coworkers!?

"Cool - we should meet up for a coffee or lunch." 

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Aug 1, 2013 19:29:12 GMT -5 mp said:

Aug 1, 2013 19:28:41 GMT -5 doglove said:

"Cool - we should meet up for a coffee or lunch." 

I basically said "If you wanna grab coffee let me know. Otherwise make sure to say hello if you stop by the offices again!"

Perfect! How can he possibly resist you??

[glitzyglow]

I think you gave the perfect response!

[mcc]

Perfect! Hoping he bites

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Aug 1, 2013 19:39:57 GMT -5 mp said:

Aug 1, 2013 19:31:58 GMT -5 doglove said:

Perfect! How can he possibly resist you??

Well you've seen my face I make when someone tries to get me naked, right? (Note, the gif you made.) THAT'S how. Hahahah.

Oh please, I'd hit that in a hot minute. 

[jojoandleo]

Aug 1, 2013 19:55:57 GMT -5 mp said:

He said "Will definitely reach out when I'm back in town. Add me on FB - best way to stay in touch!"

He totally wants to do hot things with your hot parts.  Brown Chicken Brown Cow.

[Deleted]

Yay!!

[hazel]

Glad you reached out to him!

[Deleted]

I hit happy hour...hard. So glad others gave you good, non drunk advice. MP FTW!!!

[naeljun]

I love this thread.