Drama on my bmb

[kelle017]

Remember the whole drama on ML over someone not getting their secret santa gift.

I started crap on my bmb over the same thing.

I didn't think it was going to escalate (which I should not have assumed so; it is the internet after all, ha) since I didn't call anyone out and didn't name names (since I didn't even know who it was), but apparently I was doing so and publicly shaming people.

Basically I didn't get a gift, and since our exchange deadline was a week ago I figured I wasn't going to.  The person who originally had me dropped out, but someone picked my name up and I thought things were okay.

Then I never got the gift and hadn't heard anything and posted that I was bummed.

Later on the person who had me told me to 'calm my titties' and that she had been busy with work etc...

Which is fine, but a simple message would have taken care of it all and not left me wondering. 

Lesson learned is to never participate in these ever again. 

The link 

[Kristinmo]

I don't understand that whole post. Well, yours I understand. It's the reaction to it I don't get. You didn't call anyone out by name because you didn't know the name!!!

[kelle017]

I didn't get it either, but people like drama so I should have known to expect it wouldn't just be a simple post/vent.

[themysteriouswife]

You should have known how this would have played out.

Your elf sounds like a snatch. I wouldn't want my gift after that. Screw her and her excuses.

[bugandbibs]

Well, you have a fun BMB.

[gogadgetgo]

Bitches be crazy. Sounds like a good time.

[btay]

There is a reason I avoid gift exchanges unless I know and trust everyone in it

[bugandbibs]

Aug 13, 2013 19:44:47 GMT -5 btay said:

There is a reason I avoid gift exchanges unless I know and trust everyone in it

Speaking of which, we should do a BOTB one on here this year. 

[kelle017]

Aug 13, 2013 19:44:47 GMT -5 btay said:

There is a reason I avoid gift exchanges unless I know and trust everyone in it

I learned my lesson for sure.  I won't do that again. 

I will say that she did send me a pm and apologized though for the comment and the delay so I appreciated that. 

[gogadgetgo]

Aug 13, 2013 21:50:15 GMT -5 bugandbibs said:

Aug 13, 2013 19:44:47 GMT -5 btay said:

There is a reason I avoid gift exchanges unless I know and trust everyone in it

Speaking of which, we should do a BOTB one on here this year. 

Thumbs up!