I judge

[iluvmytxrgr]

I have been quite judgmental today. I can't help it. People are being stupid.

1. A female who was once one of my Privates posted a pic on FB that has been going around. It's a screen shot of a message between a guy and a girl with the girl asking if the guy wanted to hook up because her H is deployed and she's lonely. I posted that it was a hoax and please don't keep it going because the chick is now getting death threats over a fake convo some douchebag hacked into her FB and made up.
She goes on and on about what happens to the chick isn't her responsibility but people need to understand it isn't ok to jack around on soldiers who are risking their lives and she understands why SMs want to deploy because spouses suck. I kind of, politely, lost my mind.

2. J's 21 yr old brother just posted a pic of his new tattoo. It's a naked woman who looks to have been beaten up. She's holding a Confederate flag over her cooch with the pubes showing over the top. She's wearing a pearl necklace, has skinned knees and an anchor tattoo on her tit.
Now, I knew this kid was a douche, but this just raised his douche factor infinitely. He and MIL wonder why the hell we (and I mean my husband, too) don't like him and prefer for him to not be around our kids.

What are you judging?

[nsl]

Months ago, my younger sister requested last weekend off work (she's a nurse) so she and her boyfriend could go to California. They broke up, she forgot to cancel the vacation request, and two weeks ago when the schedule came out she realized that she had time off without anywhere to go. Instead of enjoying the weekend or going out with friends like a normal person, she begged my mom to go camping with her. My mom, who is a total pushover (judging) agreed, so they took off last Friday and got home today. My dad spent Father's Day alone because my selfish, clueless sister and mom didn't think that he might really want them around. Since we're 800 miles away, I couldn't exactly hop in the car at the last minute to go up to be with him. As it was, we spent an hour on Skype Saturday, another hour on Sunday, and over an hour on the phone with him yesterday afternoon. He was LONELY on the one holiday a year that should basically entitle him to his family's company if he wants them around.

[ilovelamp]

I'm judging my cousin. He's about 27 and has a 2 year old with his xgf. She just got pregnant again with another dude and they are getting married. My cousin and her haven't been dating in at least a year, but it seems that he's lost his mind over this. He's posting stuff on FB like Tupac quotes about baby mama whores, how she's such a bitch, etc. I get that you are upset, but this is just immature. Come on now, lets all grow up a little.

[ilovelamp]

Oh and my other cousin (baby mama drama's brother) got drunk and had a loaded shotgun in his room. He ended up accidentally blowing a hole in the ceiling of the house. His younger brother, mom, and the rest of the family were in the house at the time. Luckily his room was on the second floor.

[amaristella]

What have I been judging?

The herds of local dependapotami that live in my neighborhood. Nowhere else that I've ever lived has been this bad, but then again this is the first time I've ever lived in housing.

[Dory1988]

Jun 19, 2012 22:06:37 GMT -5 amaristella said:

What have I been judging?

The herds of local dependapotami that live in my neighborhood. Nowhere else that I've ever lived has been this bad, but then again this is the first time I've ever lived in housing.

The bolded = dead lol

[verycontrary247]

One of H's Navy buddies was married. In a span of like 2 weeks on FB he changed his status from 'married' to 'it's complicated' to 'single' and is now dating some chick who is like 16- he's in his mid to late 20's.

He's posting passive-aggressive statuses about how his now ex-wife can't be happy for him that he's found someone new to make him happy.

What a fucking trainwreck.

[amaristella]

Holy hell VC, people like do not deserve to be getting married in the first place.

[drunkpeggy]

My cousin's fiance is due to have their first child any day now. She's been posting the details of every internal exam on FB for the last three weeks.

Dude, I'm excited for baby to get here too but let's calm down on the details of your cervix.

The second I see an update on the mucous plug I'm hiding her.

[twoslicehilly]

I am judging the HS friend on FB that has a "Day 47: We did this, wiped our butts, watched a movie, put on stick on tattoos, wiped our butts some more and took showers" Update EVERY DAY since her H has been gone. I had to hide her, but go back every now and then when I'm in the mood to laugh at her over- dramatics.

[twoplustwo]

We are taking a trip to see my SIL. She is 28, a bartender, and clueless about children. She has never met Benjamin, but offered to watch him so C and I could go out one night in NYC. Sounds awesome right?
Well she wants her boyfriend to help. Mind you, she has only been dating him about 2 weeks, but hes like super awesome.Riiight. And so was the boyfriend before that. We have never met this guy and I am not comfortable with it. C calls sister, sister freaks out that she doesn't do babies, and how can we not trust her awesome new boyfriend.
Then on fathers day she calls to "apologize" but it turns into a fight about how C doesn't trust his sister, and hes horrible for judging her and is counting it against her because she doesn't have children.

I am totally judging her because she is just a fucking trainwreck and I don't want me or B to be dragged into this.

[amaristella]

Jun 20, 2012 7:07:19 GMT -5 twoslicehilly said:

I am judging the HS friend on FB that has a "Day 47: We did this, wiped our butts, watched a movie, put on stick on tattoos, wiped our butts some more and took showers" Update EVERY DAY since her H has been gone. I had to hide her, but go back every now and then when I'm in the mood to laugh at her over- dramatics.

Buy her a paper journal and a pencil and tell her to write all of the same things down and mail it to her H because he's the one who probably cares to see it.

[crimewatcher]

I judge my girlfriend. The only way she could afford Dental School was to join the Army (not the judgy part). After 2 years of school she is doing what she refers to as basic. She has been on facebook giving us a play by play every day. Got up at 0300 ran with 1000 soldiers can't feel this... wish I could sleep until 6. Food sucks blah blah blah. Dude you are on effing Facebook and have access to it. que Justin Timberlakes CRY ME A RIVER!


I also judge a spouse in H's squad. She got pulled over for failure to make a complete stop on base, her license was expired and so was their insurance. She threw a fit like a 13 yr old and when that didn't work she started a huge verbal altercation with SF, calling them names and her husband is better than them etc. She ended up being banned from driving on base for 2 months. They live on base, have 3 children and her Husband has now been bumped from his summer deployment and some other guy had to pick it up. This is the same girl who weeks early was bitching and screaming about "How dare the hospital make her feel ANY birthing pain" (apparently they were behind on the epidural and she had to deal with the pain for 45mins)

[ilovelamp]

CW, if that were my spouse I would be fucking pissed if she embarrassed me like that on base. God I'm embarrassed FOR him/her. Wow.

[crimewatcher]

Jun 21, 2012 8:30:36 GMT -5 ilovelamp said:

CW, if that were my spouse I would be fucking pissed if she embarrassed me like that on base. God I'm embarrassed FOR him/her. Wow.

The sad thing... her H seems proud of her. They thrive of attention- even negative. I would die even if I got points for speeding on base I'd be so embarrassed. The first thing H said to me the first time I drove on base- DO NOT SPEED and always make a full stop. There are only 2 or 3 stop signs on base (only 1 on his last base) so you better make them count. lol

[bigmamma]

I judge people, who judge people for judging people because really? Like you've never been judgy? judgie? judgey? fuck it

Like you've never been judgmental.

How's that for a redundant use of the word Judge?