Post by fairydust on Sept 10, 2013 13:39:44 GMT -5
I feel the same exact way sometimes. Especially lately. I think about how I had a great friendship with my ex-husband (which is why we're divorced because that's basically all it was) and I think about how much I miss the sex and laughs with my exbf. Both have moved on and are in serious relationships and here I am. Woe is me. I've been waking up in the middle of the night and the wheels start spinning and I automatically start thinking about my exbf. It sucks big time! I've been trying to compartmentalize it but I can't seem to do that. I'm in a much better place without him but damn it, I miss having someone around.
I'm sorry you're having that moment now. You are not alone. (hug) (hug2)
(((Hugs))You are so loved by so many. Plus you have so many wonderful things in your life. You're doing beautiful things for animals across the country, bringing people joy with your photos, and making people smile regularly. Not to mention you live in an amazing place and have your own unique style that is so much fun. I know sometimes it can feel like you're doing so much and need to be receiving more or you're alone, but you're never really alone and you have support always. Romantic love will come one day. you give so much, which means you'll get it all back. For now remember how much awesomeness you already have an will continue to gain on your journey as a fun and funky single chick who's kicking ass. Keep your chin up!!
You're welcome!! I hope you feel hugged and some warm fuzzies.
I do know how you feel. I've been there. I had my really lonely times when I was single, among many happy times. It'll pass and thankfully you've got a lot of good distractions. Maybe you'll make other single friends in grad school or elsewhere too.
Hugs. You are totally loved! You're amazing. An amazing dog mom to 3 nutters, an amazing friend to so many, an amazing photographer, an amazing philanthropist, and have an amazing ass!
Post by fuddyduddy on Sept 10, 2013 19:15:40 GMT -5
We all have these moments. It sounds like you have a healthy perspective, so allow yourself to feel a little sad and know it will get better. Virtual hug: (hug) (hug2)
Post by dreamcrisp1 on Sept 10, 2013 20:01:38 GMT -5
Hugs! I know you don't know me but I know the feeling. I miss it too and I'm having a rough time with all of this lately, as well. I sympathize with you!
The life with 5 dogs. The life that was predictable and where I knew I could come home and have someone there to talk to and someone to help me when I wasn't feeling well. The life where, as dysfunctional and unhealthy as it was, someone loved me.
Sighhhh. I am happier now. I am more empowered now. I am stronger and a better person. But, I have my moments.
I need a hug.
HUGGGGEEEE hugs. I have those moments too. Deep breathes and it'll pass. And drink some wine.
::hugs:: I know exactly how you feel. I miss my old life too, and the predictability of it, and even if it wasn't perfect, I miss being loved. I know we are better off, but damn.
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