Could you do Theodore Everett as first and middle names? Or do you already have a middle name picked out? I think those two names flow well together. If you want to do one or the other, then for me it would depend on your last name (not saying you should tell us, but you can probably pick out if one or the other goes better with your last name).
Post by blondieindc on Sept 21, 2013 9:53:30 GMT -5
We do have a middle name, which will be his Korean name so nothing really "flows" with it necessarily. Our last name is Greek and sounds a bit like "Jesus."
Congratulations! Please keep posting here - I would love to hear all about your experience! Hey - if you're expecting to have your baby with you in 8-10 months, then you're kind of on the same timeline as us "newly-pregnants".
I don't know much about the adoption process. Can you tell us why it takes so many months to finalize the adoption, if he's already been matched with you?
Congratulations! Please keep posting here - I would love to hear all about your experience! Hey - if you're expecting to have your baby with you in 8-10 months, then you're kind of on the same timeline as us "newly-pregnants".
I don't know much about the adoption process. Can you tell us why it takes so many months to finalize the adoption, if he's already been matched with you?
Well, I wish I could tell you in a way that gives you an answer with certainty, but I can't. Most of the delays lie on the Korean government side and are totally out of our control. New adoption laws were passed in South Korea last August and has really slowed everything down. The process requires 2 court dates in Korean family court and approving our US Visa paperwork plus setting the court date takes 6 months at least, then we go over for our first court date and meet our son for the first time, then we come back home. 14 business days (3-4 weeks) go by where the birthmother is contacted one last time to see if she wants to change her mind (to date, no birthmothers have changed their minds), then we go back to pick up our son and bring him home.
Post by coribelle26 on Sept 21, 2013 10:56:32 GMT -5
We have similar name tastes! My favorite boy name hands-down is Everett. I can't use it because we have one too close to us, but it's just a great name and one that will grow well with him.
Congratulations! Please keep posting here - I would love to hear all about your experience! Hey - if you're expecting to have your baby with you in 8-10 months, then you're kind of on the same timeline as us "newly-pregnants".
I don't know much about the adoption process. Can you tell us why it takes so many months to finalize the adoption, if he's already been matched with you?
Well, I wish I could tell you in a way that gives you an answer with certainty, but I can't. Most of the delays lie on the Korean government side and are totally out of our control. New adoption laws were passed in South Korea last August and has really slowed everything down. The process requires 2 court dates in Korean family court and approving our US Visa paperwork plus setting the court date takes 6 months at least, then we go over for our first court date and meet our son for the first time, then we come back home. 14 business days (3-4 weeks) go by where the birthmother is contacted one last time to see if she wants to change her mind (to date, no birthmothers have changed their minds), then we go back to pick up our son and bring him home.
That's quite the process. I suppose all the precautions are good in a way, since there has been so much concern with child trafficking through int'l adoption. But holy cow that wait is long. Hang in there! I'm sure you can hardly wait to meet him!
Congratulations!! I hope everything goes smoothly with the adoption process and I LOVE the name Theodore (love Theo and Teddy as nn). I think Everett is cute too. Once again, congrats and keep us posted on how the process is coming along!
Post by simpsongal on Sept 21, 2013 20:36:25 GMT -5
Congrats! Please keep posting and ask questions as we're all preparing for that little of joy to arrive!
My dad's best friend is named Theodore - we call him Theo or Teddy. It's a great name and I'm glad it's coming back in vogue. I will say, I think it's one of those names that tends to always use a nickname (that is, you don't switch from Teddy to Theodore when you're in your 20s).