I'm glad you had a good time. Do you feel the feels for him?
I do, but cautiously! This is a totally different guy than I've dated (not in a bad way!) and it's progressed at a different rate which is GOOD. It's been slow-ish in getting to know each other, not texting all day long, not overload and jumping in 10000%. But I've learned that jumping in too soon has been entirely unhealthy for me - so this is good for now.
I'm a little nervous that I haven't spoken to him today (always am after I sleep with someone) but it's his busy day, so I am not overly concerned. My anxiety is NOWHERE near where it was with Nickelodeon guy, it's normal rational thoughts now. Ask @blueyes623 how anxious I was dating Nickelodeon. LOL.
If he disappeared today it would suck but I wouldn't cry. If he came over tonight after his classes, though, I'd be thrilled.
H and I moved slower than I usually do (and yes, we moved fast by most people's standards, shurturp). I think it is a good sign when you are comfortable enough with someone to not NEED to text constantly and move quickly. I think it shows you are more secure.
Post by lexxasaurus on Sept 25, 2013 23:36:21 GMT -5
This sounds like fun!!
((also I never introduced myself on this board, 6 months ago when I started lurking and was seriously starting over. Please take me in, and ask questions if you need to validate my lack-of-creepiness or whatever!))
BTW I shared your condom in the hair story with pup guy and he loved it, and kept asking me what was in my hair, and pretend to pull out a wrapper. lol. You're a hit in the midwest!