Post by bonquiqui on Sept 30, 2013 17:17:54 GMT -5
Berbles post reminded me about this. I still have mine in a box, and I really don't know that I will ever get rid of them. I am certainly not going to wear them, but I don't know that I can part with them. Maybe it's a waste, I don't know. What did you do with yours?
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I still have mine. I would get a fraction if the value if I sell it, so I'm just hanging on to it. I figure one day I'll make a decision (it's been 5 years!)
Post by trafficgirl on Sept 30, 2013 17:40:21 GMT -5
Mine's hanging out in my jewelry box. Similar to toepick I figure I wouldn't get very much by selling it and I don't really want to pay to have it made into earrings or a pendant. It's been three years for me and I'm still haven't decided what to do with it in the end. Maybe if diamond prices go up...
Not exactly the same, but my sister and I took my mom's engagement ring and had a pendant made from the stones. She took the wedding bands and had them melted down and then made into new rings for my sister and me.
Post by glitzyglow on Sept 30, 2013 18:58:11 GMT -5
Sold my engagement ring to a local jeweler and paid off my car with the money. My wedding ring isn't worth much, so I might just try my hand at Craig's List.
Not divorced but I actually had a wedding band and engagement ring from XFI (traditional Greek engagement, you just switch hands when you get married). I had the stone set into a pendant and gave it to a friend. I threw the wedding band out the window.
They weren't worth much, but I sold them, the tennis bracelet that was my wedding gift from XH, and a necklace he had given me to a local jeweler. Then I used the money and bought myself a green amethyst ring.
Post by balletofangels on Sept 30, 2013 19:24:01 GMT -5
Not exactly the same, but DH found his XW's e-ring in a heater when he was prepping their house for sale. He pawned it and used the money for divorce bills.
I sold it the first year we were divorced. It wasn't worth much, but I did buy my kids' Christmas gifts with the money.
I have a ring (not an e-ring, but a very pretty sapphire/diamond setting) from an ex from about 15 years ago. When I got engaged to ex-h I secretly gave it to my mom to hold for me, because he wanted me to get rid of it. I haven't seen it since, but I just couldn't part with it. I still wouldn't.
Also, the money I got was only worth a portion of what XH paid for any of that jewelry. I laughed to myself the whole time because after we were divorced he had the balls to tell me that I had better not sell that bracelet, and if I didn't want it, to give it to him because he spent a lot of money on it. Fuckface.
dh's xw pawned hers...but not until after telling dsd that she would save it and give it to her when she got old enough. did that sound hateful? lol.
Biotch.
My mom gave me her wedding and engagement ring a couple years ago. It's small amethysts and teeny diamonds. I don't know what I am going to do with it, but I do like having it.
Post by msgeeksout on Sept 30, 2013 23:21:23 GMT -5
I have a box in the closet where I dumped all my crap from my first wedding including my wedding dress (which I made). The rings are in there. I have no idea what to do with them, no kids and now I am remarried. Not worth much.
I had two. The first, a smaller 1ct one I sold a few months ago to some lady who was getting a divorce and wanted a new ring that wasn't from her ex. The 3 ct wedding set I still have. If like to sell, but people around here are cheap. So I'll just hang onto it. I have thought about asking exH if he'd like to buy it off me.
Both rings were from the same exH. I'd gotten a bigger engagement ring/ wedding set about halfway through the engagement.
I have a feeling I'll end up selling the platinum from the wedding band & keeping the diamond (which was my mom's). The wedding band was my grandmother's, so I'll keep that around for someone else, I imagine.
Post by catwithspots on Oct 1, 2013 9:36:29 GMT -5
Ugly engagement ring from ExFi....Held onto the ring for several years, then I brought it back to the jewler that created the ring and reallocated the buy-back price toward my current custom wedding band.