New job - totally stumped on what to wear

[aimeedyan]

I'm a minister. At my current church, when I lead in worship, I wear a liturgical robe/stole so only my shoes are really seen. I am moving to a new church and will lead in worship weekly (meaning:sitting on platform at front facing congregation) and they don't wear robes.

Plus I'm the only woman.

The men wear suits/ties. They have it so easy!

I am uncomfortable in a skirt in that situation... so do I invest in a couple of nice pant suits and switch out my tops? Should I wear a jacket each week? Or would dress pants + nice tops be okay?

Thanks so SO much for any suggestions!

[beaglechon2012]

I like the paints suit idea if you don't feel comfortable in a dress or skirt. Do you feel comfortable in a suit jacket? If not..then don't wear one. I think the most important piece of advice is to wear something you'd feel confident and comfortable in because otherwise you'll look and feel awkward, you know what I mean?

ETA: Congrats on the job, by the way!

[verandah]

What about a longer skirt a la Talbots/Coldwater Creek? Do you have to be uber-professional, or just neat and approachable?

congrats, btw!

[NachoProblem]

I don't think you would need to wear a jacket every week. Do you have your own office? You might want to get a few that coordinate well with a lot of your wardrobe and keep them there in case you need one in a pinch. I don't know much about the day-to-day of a minister, but I wouldn't think you would need one on all day every day. You could also substitute cardigans for suit jackets. IMO they still look professional but less formal.

I also agree with PP that there are some cute longer skirts that you could add to your rotation. Something tea length maybe? But obviously if you don't feel comfortable in skirts at all, then ignore that.

[FormerCityGirl]

I'd start with a couple of darker suits and find out what is comfortable from there. Will you be doing funeral liturgies or weddings? For those two events alone I think suits would be better to help you blend in photos that the church members take. You could always add dress pants or cardigans and wear the suits as separates. I'd stay on the convservative side while figuring this out. Feedback from the current Minister's wives could also be helpful and help make the men feel included. I'm not sure how conservative your Church is, but coming from a very conservative Church and being related to Clergy, I think safe may be the best bet at the moment,