Ugh, I have to pick the restaurant again

[Bernadine]

Stress! lol. I have my first post-split third date on Friday. He's picking the movie, I'm picking the restaurant. At least I can narrow it down to places by the theater.

[Bernadine]

He liked the last one. I said I didn't care which move we saw, and he suggested that I pick the restaurant, since he's choosing the movie.

It's true, I do like a guy that can plan the whole thing. But maybe he doesn't want to come off, idk, controlling?

[explorer2001]

Pick something you know you like or decide to try something new and tell him its an adventure.

[katiecj]

I don't see the big deal?
Just pick a restaurant....

[stephbfan]

He is picking the movie and you are picking the restaurant. Maybe if you had said or suggested something that wanted to go see but you left it up to him. It sounds fair to me.

[theycallmeliz]

Doesn't seem like a bad compromise. But if things go well and you want a 4th day, maybe say, "surprise me" when he asks what to do next time?

[lookingup]

What's the big deal? I don't get it.

[blackkitty]

Holy first world problem! LOL
just kidding

[Bernadine]

I feel like I'm going to be judged for what I pick, lol.

Trust me, I know how dumb this is.

[explorer2001]

Then decide not to decide. Just urban.spoon or throw a dart at a list and move on.

[marigoldgirl]

I would have a hard time picking a restaurant until that night. I never know what I may feel like eating three days before the date. I would narrow it down by maybe two around the theater then when in the car decide between Mexican or steak house.

[doriswe]

Jun 26, 2012 14:30:00 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I feel like I'm going to be judged for what I pick, lol.

Trust me, I know how dumb this is.

Wear a low cut top...he'll be too busy staring at your boobs to notice what he's eating....YWIA!

[lookingup]

Jun 26, 2012 20:53:31 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Jun 26, 2012 14:30:00 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

I feel like I'm going to be judged for what I pick, lol.

Trust me, I know how dumb this is.

Wear a low cut top...he'll be too busy staring at your boobs to notice what he's eating....YWIA!

This point is valid. :Y:

[Deleted]

Yes just pick any restaurant by the theatre. And I agree about the low-cut top lol