"Bellybutton seemed to have a great day today but she keeps talking about butts. Any idea why this is?"
Is there a dress code? I'm guessing this has to do with low rise jeans, right? Maybe you can talk to the director and not mention anybody's name in particular but say that you've noticed some inappropriate clothing? idk. ?
Tell her at pickup. "Just so you know, I checked the cam before coming over and your pants were, erm, a little low....y'know? Just thought you'd want to know."
I need to put my glasses on...I thought the title read " OK settle an argument between my and MY bellybutton".
More coffee, please! I think giving the director a little heads up would be good, so they can address it with the staff. (I worked in a daycare when I was younger, and it was less confrontational when then the director addressed issues like this, vs it coming from a parent."