Yeap that is the most recent. Her mother is a money hungry bitch. She doesn't care about her daughter's happiness she just wants to make sure her daughter keeps sending her money. .
Yeap that is the most recent. Her mother is a money hungry bitch. She doesn't care about her daughter's happiness she just wants to make sure her daughter keeps sending her money. .
I totally agree. I feel really bad for Kandi. Her family is being so unsupportive. I was surprised that her aunt and the other woman (I didn't catch who that was), agreed with her mom that she shouldn't marry him.
I wasn't surprised. Like Kandi's guy friend said, they're like a little gang. Mama Joyce has been bad mushing Todd to everyone she can think of now, people believe it, unfortunately.
Mama Joyce looked absolutely foolish this week. It's like she was either having a mental breakdown or high or something. Completely unacceptable.
Post by thelurkylulu on Dec 11, 2013 7:43:33 GMT -5
Kandi was on WWHL after that episode aired and actually started crying. She said her mom isn't speaking to her because of last week's episode and that her mom is mad at Andy about it too. lol Like maybe it's your behavior and not the TV's fault? I did feel bad for Kandi. Her mom seems like she may have legitimate psychological issues, IMO.
Kandi was on WWHL after that episode aired and actually started crying. She said her mom isn't speaking to her because of last week's episode and that her mom is mad at Andy about it too. lol Like maybe it's your behavior and not the TV's fault? I did feel bad for Kandi. Her mom seems like she may have legitimate psychological issues, IMO.
That's the thing, sure there's some creative editing to make things look as bad as possible, but they have to have something to work with.
She acted a fool and they got it on tape. Perhaps things were said/done prior to her going off and taking off her show, but there is no excuse for her behavior.
She's definitely on something and wants to make sure she gets Kandi's money and nobody else.
I didn't watch WWHL but I keep wondering why Kandi isn't standing up to her? How can she let her talk to her fiance/friend like that?
When she was crying on WWHL, she was saying that when she was a little girl, her mom took care of her, and now that she can take care of her mom she is going to no matter what. She also said that just because she makes the money now, that doesn't make her the mother so she would never disrespect her mother. She said even though she doesn't agree with her mother, that doesn't mean she would be disrespectful to her. The whole situation is so messed up. Clearly her mother has controlled her and messed with her head her whole life. If anyone gets close to Kandi her mother freaks out. What a nightmare.
She's definitely on something and wants to make sure she gets Kandi's money and nobody else.
I didn't watch WWHL but I keep wondering why Kandi isn't standing up to her? How can she let her talk to her fiance/friend like that?
When she was crying on WWHL, she was saying that when she was a little girl, her mom took care of her, and now that she can take care of her mom she is going to no matter what. She also said that just because she makes the money now, that doesn't make her the mother so she would never disrespect her mother. She said even though she doesn't agree with her mother, that doesn't mean she would be disrespectful to her. The whole situation is so messed up. Clearly her mother has controlled her and messed with her head her whole life. If anyone gets close to Kandi her mother freaks out. What a nightmare.
What's sad is, have can tell her mother to back off and get it together, while still being respectful. It's like she feels if she says anything to her mom, it's disrespectful and that's just not true.
Kandi is going to look up one day and have nobody, because people don't have time to deal with her mother's foolishness. Carmon said It best, she does what she does, because Kandi allows her to..
Yes, it's hard to stand up to a parent, but sometimes you have to.
Post by tacoflavoredkisses on Dec 11, 2013 10:59:48 GMT -5
I couldn't believe the aunts lying flat out to kandi that the friend started the fight and "got up like she was gonna fight Joyce." Joyce was completely insane ripping her shoe off and jumping around like a crazy person. Absurd. I'm surprised the bridal store didn't ask her to leave.
Post by runforrest on Dec 11, 2013 11:01:27 GMT -5
Mama Joyce is crazy and selfish, but I almost fell off the couch when she tried to take off her shoe and throw it at Carmen. Hysterical.
I feel bad for Kandi, but for Todd even more - she needs to stand up to her mama and like PPs said, there is a way to do that without being disrespectful.
When she was crying on WWHL, she was saying that when she was a little girl, her mom took care of her, and now that she can take care of her mom she is going to no matter what. She also said that just because she makes the money now, that doesn't make her the mother so she would never disrespect her mother. She said even though she doesn't agree with her mother, that doesn't mean she would be disrespectful to her. The whole situation is so messed up. Clearly her mother has controlled her and messed with her head her whole life. If anyone gets close to Kandi her mother freaks out. What a nightmare.
She can tell her how she feels without being disrespectful.
Obviously...but this is the way she has been made to feel by her mother. It's really sick, sad, toxic, etc.
She's definitely on something and wants to make sure she gets Kandi's money and nobody else.
I didn't watch WWHL but I keep wondering why Kandi isn't standing up to her? How can she let her talk to her fiance/friend like that?
When she was crying on WWHL, she was saying that when she was a little girl, her mom took care of her, and now that she can take care of her mom she is going to no matter what. She also said that just because she makes the money now, that doesn't make her the mother so she would never disrespect her mother. She said even though she doesn't agree with her mother, that doesn't mean she would be disrespectful to her. The whole situation is so messed up. Clearly her mother has controlled her and messed with her head her whole life. If anyone gets close to Kandi her mother freaks out. What a nightmare.
My problem with this is that as a mother, that was her job. Not to sound uncaring, but ummm, she was doing what she should have been doing. I can understand not wanting to see your mom suffer, but she should not feel beholden to her mother for the rest of her life.
Believe me, I feel like my mom did an awesome job and an incredibly tough situation and I am sure there were times when she wanted to run away screaming, but I think she saw it as her being our mom and simply taking care of us. If I won the lotto tomorrow, i would totally give a chunk to my mom so that she could live without worries, but I would not literally take care of her and I don't think she would want that either.