If that's the ONLY thing he has done, I wouldn't think too much of it yet. If you're getting a creepy guy feeling from him, or you have noticed other things lately, I would take it as sexual.
i'd call it inappropriate. either he was drunk and is a touchy feely guy who lost his respect for workplace boundaries in inebriation, or it was a subtle way of feeling you out.
it's not something i'd be dialing up the local newsstation/EEOC office over, but i'd be on alert.
I would take a wait-and-see approach. If he hasn't done anything else questionable, I'd probably just chalk it up to too much wine or just a touchy person.
This. If this is the ONLY weird thing, I'd just chill and see if anything else happens. Many people get touchy feely when drinking. And/or are just touchy in general and at a party, they are just trying to be friendly.
I guess what I mean is that I am attracted to him. I would never cheat on my H, that isn't the issue here. It would just be easier if the attraction wasn't mutual, I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out.
I guess what I mean is that I am attracted to him. I would never cheat on my H, that isn't the issue here. It would just be easier if the attraction wasn't mutual, I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out.
Ok- whole different story and danger Will Robinson. Keep your distance here. If that means you're not as close at work, so be it. It doesn't matter one bit if the attraction is mutual, and you don't even need to figure that out because you're a married woman. Stay away as much as possible.
Post by greenapple on Dec 15, 2013 19:57:49 GMT -5
I guess I don't really understand all of this. You are attracted to him and you want to find out if he is attracted to you but you won't cheat? I'm not sure I get why that would matter and how it would be easier. Would his lack of attraction to you change how you feel?
I think sometimes outside of the actual workday co-workers and bosses forget about professional boundaries and just act as they would around anybody. Maybe he is just a touchy person.
I guess what I mean is that I am attracted to him. I would never cheat on my H, that isn't the issue here. It would just be easier if the attraction wasn't mutual, I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out.