Can I vent for a second, please?

[taratru]

I've been talking for the last...oh...four days about starting to run again today.  DH has engaged in conversation about it, mostly because I forgot to get new shoes on my break, so I have to go today to get them before my run, yada yada.  So I check in with him today that we're leaving right away so I can get my run in before it gets dark (omg, you guys, it is SO NICE OUT), and he tells me he signed up to work the after school finals study session until 5:00.  WTF??!?!?  He said nothing, otherwise I would have a) drove separately this morning or b) packed my clothes to run here.

So I figured I'd just go home after school and run, go pick up the girls and then pick him up.  Yes, it's a pain (another 25 miles of driving or so), but *I* am the one doing it.  And he started throwing a little mini-fit about it.  I'm like , why do you care?  "Oh, that's just stupid."  So finally I said, "FINE, I'll do it tomorrow."  And he says, "Is that what you want?"  and I said, "no, but clearly, it's what you want."  UGH.  No, I can't go at 5, it's dark.  And NO, I'm not going on the treadmill as my first run back.  It's fucking gorgeous out and now I'm annoyed as hell.  He didn't even say what the hell the big deal is.

This is SO unlike him.  It's like he didn't pay a speck of attention the last few days...which really hurts my feelings.  He knows how hard this has been for me.  Okay, I'm done.

[sassystace]

Sorry. My DH never *really* listens to me when I talk about my running plans. But on your first day back (and a gorgeous one at that), sheesh!

[kams]

Ahhh that's so annoying!!! Even awesome husbands like yours make doofy moves sometimes!

But shit, why todaaaay and not on a nasty day?! Come on Mr T!

[pixy0stix]

It really is gorgeous today.

[kams]

And, it's beautiful here too and I am hacking all kinds of nasty gunk up. While not the same at all, I can feel ya a little bit on wanting to be out on the first beautiful day in a what seems like too long (early this year, eh?).

[secretlyevil]

Dec 16, 2013 18:28:13 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

It really is gorgeous today.

This wasn't very hair pats of you.

[pixy0stix]

Dec 16, 2013 19:07:24 GMT -5 secretlyevil said:

Dec 16, 2013 18:28:13 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

It really is gorgeous today.

This wasn't very hair pats of you.

shhhhhh... I'm doing the supportive thing without siding one way or another.

Today was freaking amazeballs outside.

[gt7301b]

Awww, I'm sorry.

[taratru]

Dec 16, 2013 19:11:07 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Dec 16, 2013 19:07:24 GMT -5 secretlyevil said:

This wasn't very hair pats of you.

shhhhhh... I'm doing the supportive thing without siding one way or another.

Today was freaking amazeballs outside.

NOT HELPING!!!!!

you really are shady, pixy.  Gah.

[sadlebred]

I'm sorry! That stinks!

[clseale]

Ugh, I'm sorry. This is something my DH would do. I don't get why they get annoyed over things that don't concern them. Then I get all, "Why do you care? How does this affect you ??" and then I'm pretty sure he wants to strangle me. Lol He does not care for that response, but then he doesn't have a comeback....BECAUSE WE'RE RIGHT AND THEY'RE BEING STUPID.