XBF. I don't talk with XH at all. I get occasional bizarre/bitchy texts from XH that are sometimes highly entertaining, but never respond.
K. Good. I was worried you were entertaining the idea of getting back with the XH,which for those following along at home is always, always, without exception a terrible idea. I forbid you (collective you) from doing that.
Best advice I got post divorce is the time you think is the last time you'll speak to xh is never the last. There will always be another. They get more widely spaced. But it's like the MF'ers have a sixth sense re: when you haven't even had a passing thought about the for months and then BAM email/text/regular style run in.
I just got back from a games night with some classmates and am now ordering a bunch of last minute presents for my in-laws. When I tried to order some a couple weeks ago, my ever-procrastinating H made me cancel my orders and insisted that he was going to choose them this year. And of course he didn't, so here I am, randomly choosing gift cards that will get there in time instead of something more personal. Sigh.