I'm so afraid I won't find a job in Nashville. I really really really want a job with set hours and decent pay (I'm not even asking for good pay...just decent!!). I hope so much I get a job. I really want this to be a great new start.
My future terrifies me lately. I'm so scared nothing will work out, just like the last life I thought I had.
Be positive. My crossables are crossed for you.
Thanks. I act cool to the people I talk to about moving, but I'm so scared of failing and not finding a job that I swear I can feel my hair stand up on end and my stomach turns.
WHAT, and HE was the one who told you? That is complete bullshit. And to tell you the truth... I smell a conspiracy.
I'm so sorry. I would be fuming and then cry all over the place.
I do too, I think that's the worst part. I want to cry, but I'm not going to. I don't know what I'm going to do, but going to that party is not even an option. I'd rather spend the night home alone.
I can't believe there are such rude and inconsiderate people in the world. I am so glad you aren't going. And your exh is an ass to be all holier than thou "I promise not to make it weird". Ugh! Eff them!
Uggg I was really looking forward to my low key NYE party at my BFFs. But then he invited this girl who is so rude to me I don't even want to go. Yes I know I'm being a baby, but with my anxiety having her look me up and down and walk away from me when I say hi just is more than I can handle. My crush has a date for NYE and I got yelled at at work today even though were off on vacation. Fuck the holidays seriously.
I am planning a party with my friend, and she invited this girl that I HATE. HATE! She cheated on her FI while he was in Iraq and I just have NO respect for people who could do that. PLUS, she pulled a completely dick move with my friend who is co-hosting. Bitch I hate got mad a friend for not jumping into a fight bitch started (even though security was holding everyone back) and then bitch LEFT friend on 6th street in Austin, alone. NOT SAFE! But Friend is one of those "forgive and forget" people and I am one of those "trust is earned" people. SUPPOSEDLY the bitch isn't coming, but she "wasn't coming" to the last party and she sure as shit showed up.
I found out tonight that my friend who bailed on our NYE plans is having a party at her house instead and she invited Stbx. But I'm welcome to come hang out if I want. Oooh and Stbx promised that he wouldn't make it weird. No thanks. I'd rather go to the bar alone than hang out with Stbx on my first single NYE in 13 years. I want to say that I'm mad, but that's not really it. I'm hurt...
I know I'm not supposed to say this because I am 30, but I will cut a bitch. For serious. I would probably tell her my feelings were hurt. Not in an accusatory way more of a, "Hey, I was really looking forward to our NYE and my feelings are just really hurt right now. I know I will get over it, but I thought you should know." I mean, she can't fix it now, but I would want her to know that I'm not okay with what happened.
I found out tonight that my friend who bailed on our NYE plans is having a party at her house instead and she invited Stbx. But I'm welcome to come hang out if I want. Oooh and Stbx promised that he wouldn't make it weird. No thanks. I'd rather go to the bar alone than hang out with Stbx on my first single NYE in 13 years. I want to say that I'm mad, but that's not really it. I'm hurt...
I know I'm not supposed to say this because I am 30, but I will cut a bitch. For serious. I would probably tell her my feelings were hurt. Not in an accusatory way more of a, "Hey, I was really looking forward to our NYE and my feelings are just really hurt right now. I know I will get over it, but I thought you should know." I mean, she can't fix it now, but I would want her to know that I'm not okay with what happened.
I will tell her, but not until I feel like I can do it calmly. If I did it now it would be ugly.
I know I'm not supposed to say this because I am 30, but I will cut a bitch. For serious. I would probably tell her my feelings were hurt. Not in an accusatory way more of a, "Hey, I was really looking forward to our NYE and my feelings are just really hurt right now. I know I will get over it, but I thought you should know." I mean, she can't fix it now, but I would want her to know that I'm not okay with what happened.
I will tell her, but not until I feel like I can do it calmly. If I did it now it would be ugly.
I get you. I'd be likely to cut a bitch with my words.
mcc - I know what you mean. I wouldn't even consider dating anyone from any of my meetup groups just because they are all intertwined and date each other. It was just weird to me to think that I would have to continue to see these people.
Post by starrieskies on Dec 31, 2013 11:37:25 GMT -5
I have a really long fuse and can keep calm longer than a lot of the people I know. But when the fuse runs out, a long cool down period is required before any civil conversation can happen.
starrieskies - that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard (your friend all of a sudden having a party). You are a bigger person than me for not losing your shit with her right away. Divorce can bring out an interesting side of people who we consider friends.
starrieskies - that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard (your friend all of a sudden having a party). You are a bigger person than me for not losing your shit with her right away. Divorce can bring out an interesting side of people who we consider friends.
This. I'm so mad for you. Doesn't matter if they are friends to both of you, they had plans with you that he apparently was able to away. I hope when you're ready you speak up to them.
starrieskies - that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard (your friend all of a sudden having a party). You are a bigger person than me for not losing your shit with her right away. Divorce can bring out an interesting side of people who we consider friends.
It's definitely been a learning experience. I had two couples that I talked to regularly after leaving Stbx. One bailed on my birthday, the other NYE. Yep, time to put myself out there and make some new friends. Bring on 2014!!
starrieskies - that is the biggest crock of shit I have ever heard (your friend all of a sudden having a party). You are a bigger person than me for not losing your shit with her right away. Divorce can bring out an interesting side of people who we consider friends.
It's definitely been a learning experience. I had two couples that I talked to regularly after leaving Stbx. One bailed on my birthday, the other NYE. Yep, time to put myself out there and make some new friends. Bring on 2014!!
I went thru that too during my divorce. It sucked at the time but it forced me look at my friends and who I wanted to surround myself with. My core group of friends now I would not trade for the world. I see the superficial people he associates with and trust me, those people would not be there for him in a time of need. My friends will stand by no matter what.