My mother is annoying me about the wedding

[Bernadine]

I think she thinks that just because it's small, it's super casual.  I just said something to her about invitations, and she was surprised we were doing invitations.  Just like she's surprised that we're hiring a photographer, and surprised that I want a wedding dress.

[sunshineluv]

That would annoy me, just bc it is small doesn't mean you don't want any pictures made. Goodness!

[Deleted]

Everyone should just stop by and BYOB in her mind right?

Lol. Ignore her!

[ECB]

I'd just say to her "Mom- it may be small, but you do realize this is STILL a wedding, right?  The # of people attending doesn't change that.".

[TheSeaward]

stop telling her about it, then she can be pleasantly surprised

[ProfessorArtNerd]

Yeah, I mean, are you guys even going?

Come on, momma!

[Bernadine]

Lol, thank you all for properly sharing my annoyance!

[studytime45]

I say you just send her an e-vite, explicitly tell her where you're registered (bonus points if you aren't even registered), then ignore her the whole wedding day.


No, don't do that.

[wrathofkuus]

Is she removing superfluous buns yet?

[underwaterrhymes]

LOL. Potluck!

[lilafowler]

VowBCue!