90 Day Fiance

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Holy shit, this show is AWKWARD.  

I missed a bit of the beginning, though.  Are these "mail-order brides"?  The cute 21 year old with the old, balding guy has to be.   

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The one girl is so beautiful. Like, it hurts to look at her pretty.

[Sloane]

Aziza is never going to want to have sex with you buddy, I don't think he realizes that at all

[Sloane]

I actually have hope for Aya and Louis

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Now that I'm watching it more, I guess Paola does seem really in love with her dude. As long as he takes care of her! lol.

And yeah, poor Aziza, man. I'm so uncomfortable for her.

[alare]

I feel like Aziza is just awkward. The whole "not being able to eat in front of people" probably makes life a bit harder, too.

[cleo29]

Jan 26, 2014 22:10:44 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

The one girl is so beautiful. Like, it hurts to look at her pretty.

I know and is one of those rare finds where I think she really does not realize how pretty she is.  Her fiance scares me a little, I could see him becoming quite possessive of her.

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Kirlyam really is gorgeous. She seems so sweet and innocent, too.

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Jan 26, 2014 22:22:02 GMT -5 killercupcake said:

Which one is Aziza?

The young one with the red/blonde hair. 

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Jan 26, 2014 22:22:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Jan 26, 2014 22:10:44 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

The one girl is so beautiful. Like, it hurts to look at her pretty.

I know and is one of those rare finds where I think she really does not realize how pretty she is.  Her fiance scares me a little, I could see him becoming quite possessive of her.

Yep.

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He does seem really skeezy/awkward.

[alare]

Jan 26, 2014 22:29:46 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

Jan 26, 2014 22:22:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I know and is one of those rare finds where I think she really does not realize how pretty she is.  Her fiance scares me a little, I could see him becoming quite possessive of her.

Yep.

YES! Just hoping that they won't become the subject of a 48 hours mystery.

[cleo29]

Jan 26, 2014 22:31:03 GMT -5 alare said:

Jan 26, 2014 22:29:46 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

Yep.

YES! Just hoping that they won't become the subject of a 48 hours mystery.

This made me laugh even though it feels wrong. lol

[Sloane]

Jan 26, 2014 22:28:40 GMT -5 @rumpshaker said:

Does Aziza have an eating disorder?

I was wondering that too, the not eating in front of people and she's very thin. 

Regardless, I don't trust her motives. Wasn't she the one that previously applied to a couple reality shows that would bring her to the US? 

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Jan 26, 2014 22:33:46 GMT -5 killercupcake said:

Who does Tonya think she is?!

Girl, fix your eyebrows and worry about yourself.

I'm lmao that she is trying to mandate that they have no children together.

[mx27]

Jan 26, 2014 22:29:46 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

Jan 26, 2014 22:22:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

I know and is one of those rare finds where I think she really does not realize how pretty she is.  Her fiance scares me a little, I could see him becoming quite possessive of her.

Yep.

which one are you all talking about?  what's her name?

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Jan 26, 2014 22:35:11 GMT -5 @stellasmom said:

Jan 26, 2014 22:33:46 GMT -5 killercupcake said:

Who does Tonya think she is?!

Girl, fix your eyebrows and worry about yourself.

I'm lmao that she is trying to mandate that they have no children together.

If I were Aya, I'd get knocked up just to spite Tonya.  

[joenali]

No one is going to talk about how gay Russ is? Next week he presumably gets called back to work. I think it's his boyfriend.

[wambam]

I disagree that they're not into their fiances. I think the only one like that is Aziza.

But I'm naive and optimistic, so there's that.

[cleo29]

Jan 27, 2014 1:03:35 GMT -5 joenali said:

No one is going to talk about how gay Russ is? Next week he presumably gets called back to work. I think it's his boyfriend.

We touched on this last week.

[captainobvious]

The Russian girl is oddly jealous even though she's just using him to fulfill her dream of living in the US.

[sake]

Aziza seems so unhappy. And yes, I do think she has some sort of eating disorder.
I also felt really skeeved out by her fiancé pressuring her for sex. He is totally fucking creepy.

ALSO…. Did you know that there is a 5th couple named Alina ( from Krasnyi Luch, Ukraine) and Len (from Scottsdale, Arizona) whose story is exclusively on tlc.com?

[sake]

Jan 27, 2014 16:11:16 GMT -5 jamie.1022 said:

Jan 27, 2014 16:08:41 GMT -5 sake said:

ALSO…. Did you know that there is a 5th couple named Alina ( from Krasnyi Luch, Ukraine) and Len (from Scottsdale, Arizona) whose story is exclusively on tlc.com?

I do now!  

I love your sig pic! adorable!

[game blouses]

Jan 28, 2014 15:59:14 GMT -5 @booby said:

omg, i LOVE paola.

re: aziza -- i feel really awful for cleveland. he seems really nice, and if he wasn't so unconfident and dumb, he'd be a solid catch. i mean, dude, all of your friends and family see it, he is lying to himself. their sex encounter was perhaps the most awkward thing i have ever watched. she does not seem in to him even a little bit. ugh. and the whole food thing? it's really sad and bizarre. but fascinating.

I agree, Paola is the best! Aziza's food thing is weird, but it's also weird that he keeps pushing her to eat. Why would you take her to a wedding menu tasting if she doesn't like to eat in front of people? Or why would you let your mom make a whole meal without mentioning that your fiance doesn't like to eat in front of people? It's not like this is new information.

All the guys seem nice, and I feel bad for the ones who might be getting scammed.

[cleo29]

Jan 28, 2014 15:59:14 GMT -5 @booby said:

omg, i LOVE paola.

re: aziza -- i feel really awful for cleveland. he seems really nice, and if he wasn't so unconfident and dumb, he'd be a solid catch. i mean, dude, all of your friends and family see it, he is lying to himself. their sex encounter was perhaps the most awkward thing i have ever watched. she does not seem in to him even a little bit. ugh. and the whole food thing? it's really sad and bizarre. but fascinating.

The whole scene made me uncomfortable and took me back to days when a guy is seriously trying to kiss you or something and you want no part. ugh

[elleblue]

Jan 28, 2014 16:09:58 GMT -5 ribollita said:

I do not see Aziza's FI as skeezy either. I feel bad for him!

Yeah, he's just majorly awkward - and way more into her than she's into him. 

[bonquiqui]

I am hooked on this show, and I really don't think any of the girls are really in love

[game blouses]

Jan 28, 2014 16:12:08 GMT -5 @booby said:

Jan 28, 2014 16:04:22 GMT -5 game blouses said:

I agree, Paola is the best! Aziza's food thing is weird, but it's also weird that he keeps pushing her to eat. Why would you take her to a wedding menu tasting if she doesn't like to eat in front of people? Or why would you let your mom make a whole meal without mentioning that your fiance doesn't like to eat in front of people? It's not like this is new information.

All the guys seem nice, and I feel bad for the ones who might be getting scammed.

my only conclusion is that aziza treats the food thing like she treats the sex thing.  expressing interest when the situation is not immediate and then, when it is immediate she retreats.  sort of like a mechanism to keep people from confronting her about it, you know?  so, she tells clevland that she will go with him to his mom's house for dinner but then when she's there, the anxiety kicks in and she can't make herself do it. 

That's a really good point. The sex thing was weird too - she doesn't want to sleep with him until she sees some girls "flirting" with "her man"? It definitely speaks to doing things on her own terms.

Like his dad pointed out, her English is quite good for someone who was online to meet an English tutor. I wonder if his Russian is as good as her English?

[firedancer49]

I need to watch this tonight!