Respond?

[callunafirefly]

I’ve been emailing/texting a match guy for a couple weeks. We’ve hung out twice. I’m not sure I’m really feeling him. He lives a little far, and our schedules don’t mesh that well. He has a job, he’s not hideous and he seems nice enough. Last Wednesday we texted about hanging out Friday night. He has my phone number, and has my work email, which he never hesitates to use. Thursday and Friday I hear nothing. Fine with me, I was tired and like I said, unsure of if I like him, so I figure good, this can just fizzle out. Saturday, Sunday I hear nothing, no surprise there. Today – email from him when I get to work about how was my weekend, hope I had a good mother’s day.
Do I respond? Blow it off? Tell him I’m not feeling it?

[bullygirl979]

Respond back. Just say that although he seems like a nice guy, you aren't feeling the potential for a long term match.

I always advise people to act like you would want to be treated (shit, I sound like my mother, lol).

[callunafirefly]

May 14, 2012 14:35:48 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Respond back. Just say that although he seems like a nice guy, you aren't feeling the potential for a long term match.

I always advise people to act like you would want to be treated (shit, I sound like my mother, lol).

ITA...but the whole kinda blowing me off about our plans is why I'm wondering.

[bullygirl979]

May 14, 2012 14:42:44 GMT -5 callunafirefly said:

May 14, 2012 14:35:48 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Respond back. Just say that although he seems like a nice guy, you aren't feeling the potential for a long term match.

I always advise people to act like you would want to be treated (shit, I sound like my mother, lol).

ITA...but the whole kinda blowing me off about our plans is why I'm wondering.

Maybe he thought that you were going to call him about your plans? Either way, I would send him an email cause then you know that it is done. And he knows it is done. And hopefully you won't get anymore texts or emails. And you can move on to better options!

[achase123]

May 14, 2012 14:35:48 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Respond back. Just say that although he seems like a nice guy, you aren't feeling the potential for a long term match.

I always advise people to act like you would want to be treated (shit, I sound like my mother, lol).

QFT

Just keep it short and sweet. It's pretty easy in email form.

[BlueBayou]

May 14, 2012 15:00:35 GMT -5 achase123 said:

May 14, 2012 14:35:48 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Respond back. Just say that although he seems like a nice guy, you aren't feeling the potential for a long term match.

I always advise people to act like you would want to be treated (shit, I sound like my mother, lol).

QFT

Just keep it short and sweet. It's pretty easy in email form.

I second this. No reason to drag it out if you know there is no spark.