It just started this weekend? I think that just nerves, not a bigger sign. If you had been having nagging feelings like that for the past 6 months, then maybe it would mean something. But a week before? My diagnosis is just nerves. Even if you have been living together for awhile, and know you want to be together, something about the big step of marriage can still put a pit of fear. Especially since you've been married before and also single for awhile.
My freak out was over my name. My entire life I planned to change it (very very common maiden). And then, 2 weeks before the wedding, I freaked out and said no, wasn't going to, you can't make me, no way. I did.
Also I'll admit that I'm a little scared about getting married again. I don't know many happy married people. Id like to beat the odds. I'm afraid of having to divorce again down the road.
IDK. I was fine until this weekend. Now I'm super nervous.
My random: it's all Olympics, all the time in the Tuesday household. I love, love, love the Winter Olympics. H doesn't get it. I finally figured it out last night, back when I was somewhat athletic, my activities were skiing, ice skating/hockey, and fencing. I love winter sports, bc I hate sweating. And since I was a pretty de net skier, all the skiing events are something I can relate to. Yeah, I never did a 360 in a jump, but I could run moguls, etc. And I've got the bad knees to prove it lol
I'm watching a Tiffany D video trying to pick one. I think luminous light
I just feel guilty bc I just bought Bobbi brown blush in pale pink. Bc I saw this photo and it was gorgeous!!!! No lipstick. But I want that too. Uuggghhh.
I have pale pink. I forget to use it! I've been addicted to MAC Surf Baby blush. Who knew orange could be so flattering? @gypsy bought a couple extras & gave me a spare. Thankfully, they're huge. I'll be sad when I'm 50 & they're gone
carrotsmakemefat I am sure it is just nerves. I'm sure I would/will feel the same way but this is not like your first marriage at all.
FTR I know a lot of happy married people. I know a lot of unhappy ones too, but I think you just have to hope for the best and not let fear get in the way of living your life.
I don't want to get a second divorce either, but we both survived one already and we'd live if we had to survive a second. I doubt that will happen anyway, but I am certain you'll be fine no matter what happens and chances are you'll be very happy together!
I can't wait to see pics of your wedding. I can't believe it is next week already!
It just started this weekend? I think that just nerves, not a bigger sign. If you had been having nagging feelings like that for the past 6 months, then maybe it would mean something. But a week before? My diagnosis is just nerves. Even if you have been living together for awhile, and know you want to be together, something about the big step of marriage can still put a pit of fear. Especially since you've been married before and also single for awhile.
My freak out was over my name. My entire life I planned to change it (very very common maiden). And then, 2 weeks before the wedding, I freaked out and said no, wasn't going to, you can't make me, no way. I did.
Lol. Most people at work already call me by my new last name at work (mentioned it one day and it had a ring to it, so people ran with it). I just need to change it legally. And since it's an easy last name I'm down with it.
I'm going with nerves too. No nagging feeling or dread for the last 6 months. I had the same feeling the day weight engaged too, out of panic. That disappeared after a day or two.
Doesn't help that my sister and her H are working towards divorce. It's messing with my mind
I'll jump in here and agree. I married for the second time two years ago and had the same freak out about a week and a half before the wedding. It was more of a "wow this is really happening, am I totally sure?" than the "what the hell am I doing, am I ruining my life?" thoughts that I had the first time. They passed and I wasn't nervous at all on the actual day. And now, I regret nothing and we are so very happy. I found it helped to think about my DH and how happy we were together to help the nerves.
Get the makeup, carrotsmakemefat. Weddings are expensive enough that a little extra won't make much of a difference. Plus it's something you'll use daily.
Kore, I hope things work out for you -- whatever that ends up meaning.
I'm getting annoyed at everyone asking what is going on with the figure skating completion. They say it's the team competition like every 2 seconds!! Gah!!
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
I'm pretty sure my husband has a radar to tell when I'm reaching my limit. Since my post the other day, he's been acting more like his old self.
I'm still cautious (and really craving single life). We shall see.
If you're really craving alone time or being single can you take a trip by yourself for days? Who knows? Maybe even a trip with him would be helpful. Have you guys gone on vacafion lately? I know changing my environment can help immensely if I'm in any kind of rut. That's good things are improving!
I'm pretty sure my husband has a radar to tell when I'm reaching my limit. Since my post the other day, he's been acting more like his old self.
I'm still cautious (and really craving single life). We shall see.
If you're really craving alone time or being single can you take a trip by yourself for days? Who knows? Maybe even a trip with him would be helpful. Have you guys gone on vacafion lately? I know changing my environment can help immensely if I'm in any kind of rut. That's good things are improving!
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
This is as unusual as I think it is, right?
Oh, awful. Does he actually do this in public?
He probably read an article about the health benefits of bone broth- totally different.
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
This is as unusual as I think it is, right?
I have heard of eating fish bones. Like the bones of sardines are very nutritious... But chicken bones sound dangerous.
Has he ever heard of milk alternatives, like almond milk?
Post by sarapocalypse on Feb 9, 2014 13:20:44 GMT -5
Ugh, feeling so sick today. I had to get up early yesterday and today to log into work and get some stuff done. This morning I rolled out of bed and felt like complete crap (on my period, didn't sleep well at all and just generally cranky). Got my work done and then spent the next hour in the bathroom trying not to puke (only somewhat successful at that). Finally laid back down at around 9:00 and slept until noon. Feeling better but my stomach still feels a little unsettled. Boo.
It's above freezing! And it's raining! Melt, baby, melt! Except I'm still sorta trapped inside cause now all the ice is falling off the trees and power lines. H had to go to work too, so I'm gonna be really bored today.
I took my car for an oil change today. I'm stuck in a waiting room with a bunch of guys (trust me, not as hot as it sounds) and a ton of sports illustrated magazines. Now I remember why I usually send my husband to do this
My friend's new boyfriend eats bones. Meaning, for instance, that if he orders a plate of chicken wings, when he's done there's nothing left on the plate. He says he does it because he's lactose-intolerant and that's how he gets his calcium.
This is as unusual as I think it is, right?
Pretty much. My god father did this, but he was a career farmer and hunter that ate lots of meats I can't imagine and the type that doesn't let any part of the animal go to waste. And from what I understand he only did this when eating at home.