Post by partiallysunny on Feb 19, 2014 7:48:55 GMT -5
I think Kittah's pregnant.
(And, before you ask Muddled, I have not seen the owner. And for all intents and purposes, that chick is no longer to even be considered Kittah's owner. This poor, itty bitty kitty should not be pregnant and I'm pissed at myself for not just owning that we were keeping this cat and taking her and pissed at the former owner for never taking her in the first place.)
I'm tired of going to PT 3 days a week after school. It is sucking up all of my time. I have union meetings every monday...and pt wed thur fri...that leaves me tues to get anything done. it isnt even helping me that much. This has been going on since oct!
Post by partiallysunny on Feb 19, 2014 9:05:23 GMT -5
Thanks doglove. I've been reading about it since you mentioned it. Seems many vets won't do the procedure (moral reasons) or won't in the late stages of pregnancy. I could call the two local vets in the area to ask.
I don't know how far along she is... We've been making fun of her for getting fat after she came indoors. And all the digging in my sock drawer recently is starting to make sense. But nesting is a "late" pregnancy sign. Oh boy. My H mentioned it because of her nipples... ::sigh:: I've never had a pregnant cat! I get my pets neutered!
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
anyone in mind?
I do have a friend who offered, but that's a complication I don't need. The psychiatrist seems to be throwing his hat into the ring with his invite to the hot tub.
I do have a friend who offered, but that's a complication I don't need. The psychiatrist seems to be throwing his hat into the ring with his invite to the hot tub.
he does indeed. Do you see things getting serious with you two in the future? That's the only complication I see. He might want something more serious than you do, at the moment.
partiallysunny I'm not sure. He does know that he's the first guy I've been on a date with since the decision to divorce. I don't know if I plan on anything serious with anyone, but I'm also not going to say absolutely not if I end up really liking someone.
partiallysunny I'm not sure. He does know that he's the first guy I've been on a date with since the decision to divorce. I don't know if I plan on anything serious with anyone, but I'm also not going to say absolutely not if I end up really liking someone.
of course. If you make it clear to him you aren't looking for anything serious at the moment, there is nothing wrong with having some fun.
My confession is kindof lame but I got and IPhone 5 and so far I love it. Probably shouldn't have bought it right now but my old phone iPhone was so sloooow.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
I'm in this boat too... exactly.
Twins!
Re-learning how to navigate this stuff as an adult is strange and difficult. I guess if I go just based off of how I feel without worrying about anything, I'd go for it.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
Do it! Just be safe and don't worry too much about it otherwise.
Oh, my confession. I think maybe I just need to have sex with someone (who I like and who seems sane) and get over the hump, so to speak, since I haven't had sex with anyone but STBXH in 13+ years and haven't had sex at all since late October. But then I start to doubt myself because I don't want to settle down with anyone, but I've also never done the casual sex thing. Over-thinker right here.
Do it! Just be safe and don't worry too much about it otherwise.
My worry has really needed being judged by others, so the encouragement helps. Thank you!
My boss is in his office eating cupcakes and cookies right now. (It's treat day in the office) He NEVER partakes of these things. Never ever ever. I'm freaked out that something is really wrong!
I am super excited that my H decided to hit the gym again. He's been really down and since June gained 40lbs. He's tall so it's not super obvious but I think He will feel better about himself and have more energy again. It also will help me because it's hard to eat healthier and exercise when the other half of your household is not. It's easy for me to think "oh I'll work out tomorrow."