Last month was my first cycle charting and it was a really nice looking cycle, with a temp dip and then rise. This month I added OPK tests to the mix and now my chart is all irregular with no dip yet and no rise either, despite the positive OPK.
It annoys the hell out if me, how the heck am I supposed to time sex correctly if my chart is all screwy.
I guess I'll just have to declare thus a lost cycle.
I sound like you sometimes and my DH gets so mad at me. He always says "if you want to be pregnant, just have sex". I know it is nice to know when you ovulate, but why declare it a lost cycle just because you aren't sure? Just keep having sex. No cycle is lost with me until I start my period.