WWMLD

[wambam]

I have a friendly acquaintance at the gym who shares a birthday with me. On Saturday, she gave me a card when we went out with other girls from the gyms. I want to reciprocate the gesture (our birthday is tomorrow), but I don't want her to think the only reason I'm doing it is because she did it first.

WWYD?

[Deleted]

If you don't want her to think you are only giving it bc she did then I would do something different. Maybe buy her a waterbottle and put it in a gift bag or something like that

[candreco]

Don't overthink it, just get her a card.

[mrsgoontz]

I would get her a card; maybe make some yummy paleo cookies or something? I wouldn't over think it too much.

[wambam]

Mar 10, 2014 10:58:05 GMT -5 @licia said:

Will you see her tomorrow? If so, I'd do something cute, like an apple with a ribbon tied around it, or a fancy vitamin water and a bow.

Yes, I will see her tomorrow.

[ECB]

Get her a card. Don't elevate this to now having to exchange gifts. Because if you give her anything - water bottle or what have you - next year she'll feel she needs to give you something more than a card.

As tomorrow is your actual b-day, a card is fine. it's not an afterthought. You just waited until the day of.

[valetgirl]

I agree that it's not an afterthought to give a card on her actual bday. I think this is your best option.