Post by EmilieMadison on Jul 11, 2012 16:41:18 GMT -5
- Tell her that you've been looking for a weight loss buddy. Ask if she'll be your buddy, even though she has more weight to lose than you do.
- Are the people being loud doing things that they aren't supposed to do? Yelling, etc? If not, then I dont think you can ask people who are working out to keep it down in an open gym. And dont blast music, JUST use a mic if you need to.
- Tell her that you need 3 weeks notice in writing for time changes to your classes.
- Start calling her Madame when she calls you sweetheart.
- Forward all emails back to her.
- Tell her that you need a sub. If she says no, then cancel the class. I'm not sure what else to do for that.
Quit. years ago i worked at a weight loss clinic and I was told that if I didn't lose weight on my own, it would be mandatory for me to go on their program. I was 18, 5'7 and 130 lbs. not fat by any means. I didn't quit right on the spot like I should have, and my boss treated me like garbage for the next few weeks until I told her I was moving and I gave my two weeks notice. She fired me the next day. I'm probably projecting, but don't put up with that shit.
Thanks for the compliments & suggestions ladies. She just emailed me and asked me to call her. I want to quit (or put notice in) but don't want DH to be dissapointed in me =(
I thought he told you to quit, too? Maybe I read a previous post wrong. The extra money doesn't seem like it's worth the aggravation of dealing with that woman.
I know SMACE. And I know he wouldn't ACTUALLY be dissapointed that I left a toxic work environment but I don't want him to think I'm a quitter. He loves & supports my low paying job because I love it so IDK wtf I'm worrying about.
It's called moving on!! We ALL quit jobs at some point in our lives for various reasons. If quitting ONE job, and a toxic one at that, makes a quitter, then we're ALL quitters!,
Wow. Just wow. Either she's a horrid, horrid manager, or she's trying to force you out. Or both. But yeah - get out of there. And if you have any relationship w/ the owners, I'd tell them directly why you're quitting. If you've had a good experience there until this, let THEM know so that they know what their relative is doing.
Post by underwaterrhymes on Jul 11, 2012 18:42:54 GMT -5
She's a fucking bitch. I would run out to Office Max and buy those little business cards. Print your contact information on them. Teach your last class or two and give them to all of your students. And quit.
I have ignored a LOT of stupid bosses. This would fall under ingnoring her. And as for the sub - I would make it clear that "I'm not going to be there" - get a sub or not.
I'd have more fun daring her to fire me than quitting.
When you e-mail your resignation, you should be specific about why you are quitting, (ie: outline the disrespectful treatment and convos) and make sure you CC the owners.
Do you need help writing your resignation! I don't know you, but I am SO excited for you to verbally cut this bitch.
And, it's a GREAT thing if there isn't a lot of yoga in your area - lots of room for you to take advantage of the potential market with little competition! You could start with something that is low cost for you, like a one month "yoga in the park" summer program, where a group pre-registers and meets two morning a week (or evenings.. or whenever!) at a park. You could do a beginning and an intermediate or something. Charge people a low intro rate to get them coming out and recommending to friends. You could make way more than $300 in a month doing that!
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Normally I would very much lean toward giving an appropriate amount of notice, but based on her attitude thus far, she might tell you it's your last day anyway, and potentially try to sully your name to any and all clients.
It's toxic, I'd get out politely (but assertively and honestly) and get started setting up your own stuff!
Dear Boss, Please accept this letter as my formal resignation from (company). Although my time with (company) has been, on the whole, satisfying and productive, the current situation is such that I feel it necessary to leave. Firstly, there is a lack of organization and clarity in the expectations for instructors. Some examples of this are: - - Further, there is also a lack of mutual respect between management and instructors, as evidenced by the following: - - I have enjoyed my time with (company), but feel that I can no longer perform my job adequately under the current circumstances. Therefore, it is with regret that I ask you to accept this as my resignation from (company), effective immediately. Best regards, Nama
I'm going to look over the budget & see if I can pick up any classes at gym B.
Would this also help with the promotion? What about picking up one or two private lessons? If the gym is bothering you it may be bother some of the students too.
I agree with the rest. Time to quit. She is crazy. It sounds like she's jealous of you that makes me think, for some reason, that her husband or boyfriend or someone has comment on your good looks so now she has it in for you.
I agree with the letter to the owners. Be VERY specific. Say "per an email from Mrs. Psychohosebeast, dated July 1, 2012, she stated that I must give 3 weeks notice for a substitite. Then, on July 5, 2012, Mrs. Cuntfacedicklicker stated in an email that she now needs 5 weeks to find a substitute." Be very specific. Attach copies of the emails showing the contradictions or where she said something against the rules. Also, make sure that you address the other issues, with any possible documentation (changed class time by 10 minutes, etc.). Make sure you emphasize that this has all happened since the date of X, when she was employed there.
Another good thing to throw in is "hostile work environment". They won't want to hear that, and it sounds like it's the truth.