The confidence is gone for tonight.

starrieskies Senior Member Posts: 5,794 Likes: 3,659	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:30:07 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by starrieskies on Apr 6, 2014 22:30:07 GMT -5 Oh.My.God!! What a dickface!!! I'm so sorry! ((((mp))))
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mcc Senior Member Posts: 9,466 Likes: 6,909	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:30:25 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mcc on Apr 6, 2014 22:30:25 GMT -5 I'm sorry. I had someone do that to me and it sucks. Big hugs
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winecat Elder SO Mod cats, wine, pizza Posts: 15,962 Likes: 20,078	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:33:02 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by winecat on Apr 6, 2014 22:33:02 GMT -5 Big hugs and hair pats... That's just shitty. I'm sorry. I know you know it's all about him- nothing to do with you - but still...
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Deleted Posts: 0	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:35:03 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App becwheat and mp like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2014 22:35:03 GMT -5 Oh my god. I would go directly to wine, do not pass go. Shit I'm so sorry. That's really really terrible.
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doriswe Elder Posts: 16,742 Likes: 7,987	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:37:51 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by doriswe on Apr 6, 2014 22:37:51 GMT -5 Awwww, that sucks. I'm sorry.
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btay Full Member Posts: 3,166 Likes: 2,192	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:42:13 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by btay on Apr 6, 2014 22:42:13 GMT -5 Whatadouche. I am so sorry
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The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:43:26 GMT -5 mp likes this

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Post by achase123 on Apr 6, 2014 22:43:26 GMT -5

Apr 6, 2014 22:26:25 GMT -5 mp said:

Guys I need a hug something fierce. Remember the guy I hung out with a few weeks ago? Was excited about? But then it dwindled and I was like eh, it's ok. I had some time to reflect and was glad it didn't go anywhere- he wouldn't be good for me in the long run. We didn't really talk after that.

Well he called me tonight. Going on about how he missed me. And how he has always had feelings for me. And then... He said "My friend asked 'Why isn't Chelsea here?!'"

Guys. My name isn't Chelsea. I said "you know who you're talking to, right?"
Of course.
"Look at your phone."
(Pause.) oh.

I hung up. Texted him something how he needs to get help because I've realized he throws the same lines out to everyone but means none of them. And then I blocked him.

Honestly ... While I wouldn't have jumped into something with him, a part of my heart loved hearing that he missed me. Like - no one has said that to me. You know? So I just feel like this was the ultimate mindfuck for now, and my great weekend is now ending in tears. I'm letting myself have tonight, then it's back to awesome mp tomorrow.

Ugh!!!!! There are no words!!! I'm so sorry, what a dick.

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sweetchix Senior Member Posts: 7,085 Likes: 3,717	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:46:51 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sweetchix on Apr 6, 2014 22:46:51 GMT -5 Oh wow, I'm sorry mp. I know what you mean saying it felt good to know he missed you. I'm sorry it turned out the way it did. (((Hugs)))
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glitzyglow Senior Member Posts: 6,263 Likes: 3,535	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:55:22 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by glitzyglow on Apr 6, 2014 22:55:22 GMT -5 I'm sorry love. Big hugs.
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verycontrary247 Senior Member sticker Posts: 9,188 Likes: 9,595	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 22:58:05 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by verycontrary247 on Apr 6, 2014 22:58:05 GMT -5 Just so you know, I MISS YOU! And every time I see a rare black Prius I think of you.
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The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 23:23:33 GMT -5 carrotsmakemefat, mp, and 1 more like this

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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2014 23:23:33 GMT -5

mp you will laugh about this one day.

Maybe no one has ever said it, but I am sure you have been missed.

Your guy is out there. You will find him. (I know some singles hate that, but it's true. Best believe.)

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The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 23:30:04 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this

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Post by lookingup on Apr 6, 2014 23:30:04 GMT -5

I'm sorry, mp. I have a lot of the same feelings you have about dating and guys, and it does get really discouraging. I'd love to give you big hugs and cry it out over a glass of wine, but alas, we are on opposite coasts. Feel better soon.

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Deleted Posts: 0	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 23:31:35 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2014 23:31:35 GMT -5 I don't think there are enough four letter words.. ((Hugs))
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alicenelson Full Member Posts: 4,055 Likes: 3,579	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 23:37:16 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by alicenelson on Apr 6, 2014 23:37:16 GMT -5 Goddangit, that sucks, MP. You're beautiful. He's a loser, and THE loser.
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justkly Full Member Posts: 1,916 Likes: 1,187	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 6, 2014 23:40:03 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by justkly on Apr 6, 2014 23:40:03 GMT -5 Dude. I'm sorry. Trust me when I say it's not you. It's them.
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hazel Full Member Posts: 1,622 Likes: 688	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 0:05:24 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by hazel on Apr 7, 2014 0:05:24 GMT -5 OMG, I'm so sorry! Not like anyone deserves that, but come on now! It's just ridiculous stuff like this happens to you. He needs some serious help.
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imalwaysme79 Junior Member Posts: 968 Likes: 198	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 6:08:32 GMT -5 via mobile mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by imalwaysme79 on Apr 7, 2014 6:08:32 GMT -5 What an ass. I'm sorry lady.
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The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 6:37:20 GMT -5 mp likes this

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Post by Eureka1984 on Apr 7, 2014 6:37:20 GMT -5

Why do almost all guys have these stupid rehearsed lines in their back pocket. It is as if they just know what buttons to push and when. I am sorry. At least you are strong enough to hang up and walk away. sending you hugs and hair pats!

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pantsoffdanceoff Full Member Posts: 3,159 Likes: 2,064	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 7:11:58 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pantsoffdanceoff on Apr 7, 2014 7:11:58 GMT -5 I'm sorry.
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kjh New Member Posts: 337 Likes: 188	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 7:18:35 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kjh on Apr 7, 2014 7:18:35 GMT -5 I'm sorry. Think of it as getting rid of an ass not a personal insult
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Deleted Posts: 0	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 7:28:18 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2014 7:28:18 GMT -5 Ugh I'm sorry lady - I'm ragey for you.
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gozf Elder Posts: 15,006 Likes: 14,768	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 8:52:24 GMT -5 starrieskies, cuddlyevil, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gozf on Apr 7, 2014 8:52:24 GMT -5 This guy is made of douche. I'm sorry, mp.
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greysgirl Full Member Posts: 1,665 Likes: 1,502	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 9:09:27 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greysgirl on Apr 7, 2014 9:09:27 GMT -5 Aw that really sucks I'm so sorry that happened. What a dick.
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Post by Muddled on Apr 7, 2014 9:29:00 GMT -5

Why does it hurt so much to be rejected by someone you know is not good enough for you? I have never quite understood that and yet it happens over and over again to all of us.
Keep your head held high, mp. You're golden.

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Deleted Posts: 0	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 9:37:22 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2014 9:37:22 GMT -5 What a dumbass! Further proof you got lucky you didn't end up hanging out with him longer. I can totally see how that would sting though.
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cuddlyevil Elder Posts: 23,572 Likes: 16,453	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 9:42:12 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cuddlyevil on Apr 7, 2014 9:42:12 GMT -5 {{{HUG}}} How's the new place coming along mp?
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lexxasaurus Senior Member Posts: 7,964 Likes: 6,741	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 9:59:32 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lexxasaurus on Apr 7, 2014 9:59:32 GMT -5 What an asshat, I'm so sorry. ::hugs::
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llh0211 Full Member Posts: 2,429 Likes: 654	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 10:01:15 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by llh0211 on Apr 7, 2014 10:01:15 GMT -5 Chiming in totally late, but hugs. What a chump. I'm sure you're back to being the rockstar mp now!
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Wanderista Full Member Posts: 3,156 Likes: 823	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 10:23:44 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Wanderista on Apr 7, 2014 10:23:44 GMT -5 Just read this. He totally sucks, you don't. Sorry that happened to you.
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winterjen New Member Posts: 97 Likes: 25	The confidence is gone for tonight. Apr 7, 2014 10:46:32 GMT -5 mp likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by winterjen on Apr 7, 2014 10:46:32 GMT -5 That guy sounds like he's a mess and is definitely a douche. I'm sorry.
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Post by starrieskies on Apr 6, 2014 22:30:07 GMT -5

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