I've only ever been with DH so I don't know if I am completely objective in this. We have been sleeping together for several years now and our sex life is better then ever. I would say "Good" at sex, but "Excellent" at BJs. I only say excellent to that because that's what my DH has been telling me lately.
I would only say "Good" at sex because we have been together so long and really know what each other like. I am probably more just middle of the road if it wasn't for that factor.
I answered middle of the road, but I really don't know! Is there some sort of objective criteria? lol. H seems to enjoy himself, and I'm sure he would say I'm awesome, but we both have no other experience. This is a really hard one to answer!
Post by HoneySpider on Apr 9, 2014 10:00:41 GMT -5
I said good, my H would probably say good or middle of the road...I think I'm decent at actual sex, but I'm not very good at foreplay because I'm just sort of awkward at initiating stuff. I do not find myself sexy, lol.
I answered middle of the road, but I really don't know! Is there some sort of objective criteria? lol. H seems to enjoy himself, and I'm sure he would say I'm awesome, but we both have no other experience. This is a really hard one to answer!
I said good. DH seems really happy and I always try my best to keep it interesting, spice things up, etc. I don't like doing the same old thing time after time (although DH is very much a "routine" kinda guy). Like bk1, I've found what really works for DH (both with foreplay and sex) and he has zero complaints!
I said good, and I would hope he would at least say the same, at least most of the time. I definitely have my lazy times when it's not so good, but he knows better than to complain.
Neither one of us has any other experiences to compare, so I'm hoping that works in my favor.
Eh, he is much better than me, no questions asked. I voted middle of the road. I honestly let him do most of the work. I'm also rhythmically challenged so me on top never lasts long. Lol.
However, I am pretty darn good at foreplay and bjs so maybe that helps my case.
This is exactly me, lol. He likes the idea of me on top, but in practice I can tell he's annoyed by my erratic rhythm. It's harder than it seems!