Can we do confessions?

[jamesonontherocks]

Since I've been back to work I've been a major bitch by the time I get home to my poor kids. My patience is long gone and I feel horrible because I count the minutes to bed time every night, even though they've been at daycare for 12 hours. It pisses me off that my bosses don't see where its an issue for me, but are trying to talk the female nurse anestheicist into our group because of the "family friendly hours" with her two OLDER kids.

[basilosaurus]

Jul 13, 2012 16:35:34 GMT -5 @lemonlover33 said:

The first time I have a "real" confession and no one cares I had unprotected promiscuous sex!!!

::Stomps foot:: LOL.

Actually, my first thought was you go girl. Then, wait, be safe, and then go. And I couldn't figure out a funny way of congratulating and admonishing you, so I let it go.

[prettyinpink]

Jul 13, 2012 21:25:02 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

Jul 13, 2012 16:35:34 GMT -5 @lemonlover33 said:

The first time I have a "real" confession and no one cares I had unprotected promiscuous sex!!!

::Stomps foot:: LOL.

Actually, my first thought was you go girl. Then, wait, be safe, and then go. And I couldn't figure out a funny way of congratulating and admonishing you, so I let it go.

I wasn't sure of the reaction you were expecting. I was thinking all of the same things as Sibil.

[meltoine]

Jul 13, 2012 21:35:38 GMT -5 prettyinpink said:

Jul 13, 2012 21:25:02 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

Actually, my first thought was you go girl. Then, wait, be safe, and then go. And I couldn't figure out a funny way of congratulating and admonishing you, so I let it go.

I wasn't sure of the reaction you were expecting. I was thinking all of the same things as Sibil.

I wanted to say something too, but then I didn't feel like I "know" you well enough to comment on something kind of personal :/

[Deleted]

I figured you all would be scolding not congratulating!

[basilosaurus]

I don't even care if it's recurring, as long as you're protecting yourself. I think FWBs can be a therapeutic experience after a bad breakup. It's far preferable than jumping quickly into another serious relationship.

[softspot]

I was going to ask if it was with your ex, but you updated before I had a chance. That would be the only flameful part IMO. Or if you start doing it, a lot.

[Deleted]

Jul 13, 2012 23:29:53 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

I don't even care if it's recurring, as long as you're protecting yourself. I think FWBs can be a therapeutic experience after a bad breakup. It's far preferable than jumping quickly into another serious relationship.

I posted in Starting Over on TN that I don't understand FWB situations or would want to be in one.


I understand now.

[Deleted]

Jul 13, 2012 23:35:22 GMT -5 softspot said:

I was going to ask if it was with your ex.

I would rather fuck a cactus.

[Smurfette]

Jul 13, 2012 23:29:53 GMT -5 basilosaurus said:

I don't even care if it's recurring, as long as you're protecting yourself. I think FWBs can be a therapeutic experience after a bad breakup. It's far preferable than jumping quickly into another serious relationship.

Not even joking our guy neighbor said that exact thing this afternoon . So even a guy says its good. Why wouldn't it be is the question.

[verycontrary247]

You should practice putting condoms on a banana.

I am a pro now.

[ilovelamp]

Jul 13, 2012 23:45:20 GMT -5 @lemonlover33 said:

Jul 13, 2012 23:35:22 GMT -5 softspot said:

I was going to ask if it was with your ex.

I would rather fuck a cactus.

:Y: but ouch.

[pennylane]

Jul 13, 2012 23:45:20 GMT -5 @lemonlover33 said:

Jul 13, 2012 23:35:22 GMT -5 softspot said:

I was going to ask if it was with your ex.

I would rather fuck a cactus.

LOL! No scolding here either, sometimes you just have to do it. :Y:

[liamsmom]

I haven't ran in a week.

[justkly]

I hate this state. I really do. I am 2,500 miles away from home and miserable with life, yet extremely happy with H. It's so odd to feel disconnected with my surroundings, but happier than I've ever been in a relationship. I have not clicked with a single person here in 2 years and I feel completely alone as far as 'friends' are concerned and it makes me feel co-dependent since H is my main source of happiness. This is not like me at all. Grrr.

[justkly]

Jul 15, 2012 22:04:44 GMT -5 Stan said:

Jul 15, 2012 21:58:59 GMT -5 justkly said:

I hate this state. I really do. I am 2,500 miles away from home and miserable with life, yet extremely happy with H. It's so odd to feel disconnected with my surroundings, but happier than I've ever been in a relationship. I have not clicked with a single person here in 2 years and I feel completely alone as far as 'friends' are concerned and it makes me feel co-dependent since H is my main source of happiness. This is not like me at all. Grrr.

What state are you in?

NC, but born and raised in L.A. (Los Angeles). People here think that L.A. means Lower Alabama...

[Deleted]

Jul 15, 2012 22:18:21 GMT -5 justkly said:

Jul 15, 2012 22:04:44 GMT -5 Stan said:

What state are you in?

NC, but born and raised in L.A. (Los Angeles). People here think that L.A. means Lower Alabama...

I was really lonely in NC as well except for my brother and SIL. I made zero friends there.

[beans]

Jul 15, 2012 22:18:21 GMT -5 justkly said:

Jul 15, 2012 22:04:44 GMT -5 Stan said:

What state are you in?

NC, but born and raised in L.A. (Los Angeles). People here think that L.A. means Lower Alabama...

I'm in NC too! And I don't particularly like it either. Which part are you in? I'm near Bragg for the next month, we could commiserate if you're near by!

[hurricane]

My daughter is turning one on Sunday. And I am no where near ready to think of a 2nd baby. I think people think I'm crazy for not wanting (planning) a 2nd child yet. I always put my career first up until a year ago. I'm not ready to throw a 2nd kid into the mix. I want it all...family and career!