I hate long distance..

[ravenb1111]

That is all...


No really this shit sucks!

[GibsonGirl128]

I did long distance once, and would never do it again. It was miserable. It made the highs higher and the lows lower, the bank accounts empty, and put the relationship on such fast forward that it burned out quickly.

You essentially have to have an "end" set in place with LD. You have to know when you're going to either be together or jump ship. If you have no clue when you're going to be together permanently, you just keep saying, "One day...". You have to have a goal to work towards.

BTW, how are you doing? Were you able to find a hotline/someone to talk to the other night? I've been thinking about you.

[ravenb1111]

Yes.. I feel like it pointless.. And with all my extra emotions I sometimes wonder if it's worth it but then when I'm there I'm like oh yeah this is why.. And at least where he moved is where I've been planning to move too so it make it easier on my mind to relocate there since that's where I want to be anyways. So im elimating all trips there beside one when im off for some time in the summer.. Cant keep spending all my money..The end date is nov.. And if it doesn't happen then I just feel like it'll be time to move on.

Awe thanks.. I called one place but still looking for places around here to actually see somebody in person, but I've been journaling ALOT lately and the past couple days have been really "normal"... So I'm hoping this outlook continues.. Thanks so much for asking

[ravenb1111]

May 14, 2012 22:55:56 GMT -5 GibsonGirl128 said:

I did long distance once, and would never do it again. It was miserable. It made the highs higher and the lows lower, the bank accounts empty, and put the relationship on such fast forward that it burned out

BIGGEST CONCERN! I'm lucky enough to have somebody else to live with because I don't want us to live together yet.. Our relationship is pretty serious but I just feel like I lived with a boyfriend once before and I just don't want to fast forward things (after everything that just happened, like maybe we just need to enjoy this time a little longer), I still want to enjoy the dating and sleepovers a tad bit more even though we work as a team now, just not ready to do that quite yet but some people keep telling me I'm crazy and why wouldn't I?

[lovelybb]

I hear you... we're only 1.5 hours apart, but it still sucks... there's no rush to move but we're thinking we'd starting setting things in motion around September.

[ravenb1111]

1.5 isn't to bad.. Still not to good. We are a good 14 apart and it succcccks

[lovelybb]

May 15, 2012 10:03:58 GMT -5 @ravenb1111 said:

1.5 is to bad.. Still not to good. We are a good 14 apart and it succcccks

Yeah, 14 hours would suck big time! That's why I try not to complain that much... could be a lot farther!