I definitely thought he was marrying the other woman? It sounds like he was away from 5 weeks and met this person at that time.
The comments on FB about how well written and compelling this piece is are cracking me up. Those people must have some seriously low standards.
Based on her other post today it sounds like she plans to monetize her blog and do this full time. I guess we can look forward to lots of future ridiculousness from Dr. Megan Heimer, Esq.
I kind of want to give her a mini-class in how to effectively tell a story. Because that blog post is about as messed up, storytelling-wise, as her medical logic.
Post by nicbreeful on Sept 1, 2016 11:00:37 GMT -5
Why does she care that the other woman is getting married on the same day that she's signing her divorce papers when the other woman isn't even marrying her exH?
Wait she had a c section without pain medication? And then went to the store?
Yes this is the detail I got hung up on.
I'm hung up on something even more trivial. The very first time EVAR that she called and he didn't answer, she "just knew"? The pulling his hand away from her in church is kind of damning, but she must have suspected he was up to no good way before that. I don't wish divorce or infidelity on anyone, but it must be hard being married to someone whose high horse is so much higher than everyone else's.
Why does she care that the other woman is getting married on the same day that she's signing her divorce papers when the other woman isn't even marrying her exH?
Wild guess is:
(1) she found out the OW was getting married somehow - people usually register and it lists their wedding date so maybe she just googled her?
(2) she's had the divorce papers for a while and it waiting for some symbolic date to sign them.
(3) she's hoping that OW reads this letter on her wedding day and feels like shit.
Why does she care that the other woman is getting married on the same day that she's signing her divorce papers when the other woman isn't even marrying her exH?
Wild guess is:
(1) she found out the OW was getting married somehow - people usually register and it lists their wedding date so maybe she just googled her?
(2) she's had the divorce papers for a while and it waiting for some symbolic date to sign them.
(3) she's hoping that OW reads this letter on her wedding day and feels like shit.
OW has to be grateful as hell that she escaped this hot mess.
First off, this is YET ANOTHER THING that doesn't have to be on the Internet. I get that she's a blogger but why would you want strangers involved in this part of your life. You have a right to privacy, respect yourself.
Second, she's putting a lot of blame on the OW. There's a lot of, "you need to understand what you did". The other woman didn't promise you anything, Megan. She didn't stand at an altar with you. And if knowing someone for 5 weeks is enough for your husband to walk out on your marriage, he's been on the way out for a while and this likely wasn't his first affair.
I do feel for her. My sister is going through a divorce from a cheater. It's a painful thing.
First off, this is YET ANOTHER THING that doesn't have to be on the Internet. I get that she's a blogger but why would you want strangers involved in this part of your life. You have a right to privacy, respect yourself.
Second, she's putting a lot of blame on the OW. There's a lot of, "you need to understand what you did". The other woman didn't promise you anything, Megan. She didn't stand at an altar with you. And if knowing someone for 5 weeks is enough for your husband to walk out on your marriage, he's been on the way out for a while and this likely wasn't his first affair.
I do feel for her. My sister is going through a divorce from a cheater. It's a painful thing.
But she has zero introspection and no acknowledgment of her role in her own divorce... It's all "blame the other woman"
Why does she care that the other woman is getting married on the same day that she's signing her divorce papers when the other woman isn't even marrying her exH?
Wild guess is:
(1) she found out the OW was getting married somehow - people usually register and it lists their wedding date so maybe she just googled her?
(2) she's had the divorce papers for a while and it waiting for some symbolic date to sign them.
(3) she's hoping that OW reads this letter on her wedding day and feels like shit.
Bet Megan Heimer wouldn't be too upset if the OW's fiance read it too and discovered his soon-to-be-wife had been hiding a few things from him.
Oh snap. Dr. Megan Heimer, Esq.'s sister posted in the comments clarifying that the other woman was in fact marrying someone other than the former Mr. Dr. Megan Heimer, Esq. and that she cheated on her fiance with him.
I'm sure the insinuation that her ex-husband was marrying his mistress the day their divorce was final was intentional and meant to drum up as much sympathy money as possible.
According to Megan Heimer he sure does. She's an unreliable source though. I'm guessing his story is a lot different than hers.
Deep down I hope the real reason they got divorced is because he decided he wanted to be a REAL doctor and vaccinate his patients and was tired of his loony tunes wife.
According to Megan Heimer he sure does. She's an unreliable source though. I'm guessing his story is a lot different than hers.
Deep down I hope the real reason they got divorced is because he decided he wanted to be a REAL doctor and vaccinate his patients and was tired of his loony tunes wife.
The crazy thing is that he works for the USAF so he definitely does vaccinate his patients.
According to Megan Heimer he sure does. She's an unreliable source though. I'm guessing his story is a lot different than hers.
Deep down I hope the real reason they got divorced is because he decided he wanted to be a REAL doctor and vaccinate his patients and was tired of his loony tunes wife.
If you google his name, the first thing that pops up is Skeptical Raptor's response to Megan's "not afraid of the schmeasle-measles" post from last year, in which SR blasts both Megan and her now XH for their hypocrisy. So, yeah, I'd say her opinions and website have had an effect on his career.
According to Megan Heimer he sure does. She's an unreliable source though. I'm guessing his story is a lot different than hers.
Deep down I hope the real reason they got divorced is because he decided he wanted to be a REAL doctor and vaccinate his patients and was tired of his loony tunes wife.
If you google his name, the first thing that pops up is Skeptical Raptor's response to Megan's "not afraid of the schmeasle-measles" post from last year, in which SR blasts both Megan and her now XH for their hypocrisy. So, yeah, I'd say her opinions and website have had an effect on his career.
If you google his name, the first thing that pops up is Skeptical Raptor's response to Megan's "not afraid of the schmeasle-measles" post from last year, in which SR blasts both Megan and her now XH for their hypocrisy. So, yeah, I'd say her opinions and website have had an effect on his career.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
I wasn't sure if she met her parents or her ILs with that. Though I guess ILs make no such promises.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
I wasn't sure if she met her parents or her ILs with that. Though I guess ILs make no such promises.