Post by icedcoffee on Sept 1, 2016 10:17:17 GMT -5
"I cannot begin to tell you how many lives have been hurt by this and there is probably nobody else in this entire country sitting in my circumstances single parenting five children under five, two sets of twin (via adoption), two adopted children, two who don’t speak English, two with special needs, and an infant, while working full-time, drilling wells in Africa, and being a full-time stay at home mom."
I don't get how she works full time and is a full time SAHM. LOL.
Wait she had a c section without pain medication? And then went to the store?
Yes this is the detail I got hung up on.
I'm sure she's leaving out timing details. I was off pain meds a few days after c section but still on orders not to drive. That's likely what she means. But it is her, so yeah. Maybe she just did oils ya know.
"I cannot begin to tell you how many lives have been hurt by this and there is probably nobody else in this entire country sitting in my circumstances single parenting five children under five, two sets of twin (via adoption), two adopted children, two who don’t speak English, two with special needs, and an infant, while working full-time, drilling wells in Africa, and being a full-time stay at home mom."
I don't get how she works full time and is a full time SAHM. LOL.
Anyway---she still sounds crazy.
I don't understand. Two sets of twins via adoption--makes four kids, right? She adopted two.
"I cannot begin to tell you how many lives have been hurt by this and there is probably nobody else in this entire country sitting in my circumstances single parenting five children under five, two sets of twin (via adoption), two adopted children, two who don’t speak English, two with special needs, and an infant, while working full-time, drilling wells in Africa, and being a full-time stay at home mom."
I don't get how she works full time and is a full time SAHM. LOL.
Anyway---she still sounds crazy.
I don't understand. Two sets of twins via adoption--makes four kids, right? She adopted two.
If I remember correctly none of those 4 kids are actually twins. I believe the oldest and middle child that she delivered are just the same ages as the oldest and younger adopted children. So----twins in age only. Ersumshitlikethat. I can't understand much of what she says.
I thought she had one kid, was adopting 2 in the beginning. That makes 3. Then she was pregnant with another bio-kid, which makes 4. I'm not sure where the other phantom child came into it.
Also, if her husband is a doctor, why isn't he paying child support? He's already marrying the side-piece? Surely he's been seeing that woman for longer than the couple of months between her finding out and the divorce.
I don't understand. Two sets of twins via adoption--makes four kids, right? She adopted two.
If I remember correctly none of those 4 kids are actually twins. I believe the oldest and middle child that she delivered are just the same ages as the oldest and younger adopted children. So----twins in age only. Ersumshitlikethat. I can't understand much of what she says.
She had a baby and then the two adopted kids came to live with her just weeks after that? I need a flow chart.
I'm also side eyeing the adoption agency that would allow this. Don't most of them have pretty strict standards on who they will adopt to? Many won't even allow you to adopt while you are pregnant, never mind pregnant and going through a divorce.
Also, if her husband is a doctor, why isn't he paying child support? He's already marrying the side-piece? Surely he's been seeing that woman for longer than the couple of months between her finding out and the divorce.
I read it as side-piece dumped Cheating Hubby after 5 weeks and skipped off to another man/marriage.
Also she has five kids: 2 girls, one boy (just born) who are bio and then the two that just came home who are adopted. Most of my concern in all of this is for them. What adoption agency still let this go through??
She had a baby and then the two adopted kids came to live with her just weeks after that? I need a flow chart.
I'm also side eyeing the adoption agency that would allow this. Don't most of them have pretty strict standards on who they will adopt to? Many won't even allow you to adopt while you are pregnant, never mind pregnant and going through a divorce.
This is why I am questioning if he is as out of the picture as she claims.
I'm also side eyeing the adoption agency that would allow this. Don't most of them have pretty strict standards on who they will adopt to? Many won't even allow you to adopt while you are pregnant, never mind pregnant and going through a divorce.
This is why I am questioning if he is as out of the picture as she claims.
She has been saying for a long time they legally were adopted but held up due to restrictions in Congo. So they were legally hers and his long before the shit show began, she just didn't have them home
And did all of these kids go with her to Africa to dig the wells? Doesn't she have friends, why did she have to drag them all to the store, guts all freshly sewn up?
This is why I am questioning if he is as out of the picture as she claims.
She has been saying for a long time they legally were adopted but held up due to restrictions in Congo. So they were legally hers and his long before the shit show began, she just didn't have them home
Ugh, those poor poor babies. My heart just breaks for them.
"You came into his life like a perfect Proverbs 5"
Is this a common phrase? It seems like a biblely way to call someone a skank--which then doesn't seem too biblely. She knows that the other woman didn't break her marriage vows, right?
OOhhh, I'll bet you're right! Can you imagine reading this letter the day before you marry?! Which is another piece obvs exaggerated so as to make a juicier story Her bridal heels gleefully clicking up the courthouse stairs as Dr. Megan Heimar slowly plods down, carrying divorce papers in the most sullen way possible. Methinks the timeline wasn't this coordinated🤔
"I cannot begin to tell you how many lives have been hurt by this and there is probably nobody else in this entire country sitting in my circumstances single parenting five children under five, two sets of twin (via adoption), two adopted children, two who don’t speak English, two with special needs, and an infant, while working full-time, drilling wells in Africa, and being a full-time stay at home mom."
I don't get how she works full time and is a full time SAHM. LOL.
Anyway---she still sounds crazy.
She's running an MLM!!!!!
I also want to know why her H has apparently completely peaced out on taking care of his children at all or paying child support.
OK so the Other Woman did not marry X-husband. Three biological children and two adopted from Africa. But then she also mentions losing children? Also is digging the wells just...paying for have wells dug?
Also, if her husband is a doctor, why isn't he paying child support? He's already marrying the side-piece? Surely he's been seeing that woman for longer than the couple of months between her finding out and the divorce.
No if you read closely it seems side piece ditched Dr. Deadbeat and is marrying someone else, presumably with less baggage.
And what a sad letter. I cannot imagine going through a breakup while pregnant, crazy heifer or no. And then bringing home her other children at the same time.
Obviously Heimer has lied in the past but if half of this is true her Ex is a steaming pile of horse manure.
Post by pharmashill on Sept 1, 2016 10:42:26 GMT -5
I think the agency isn't at fault here. The adoption went through and was completely finalized when they were a stable family, but due to some crazy stuff in Congo they weren't released to leave the country. So they legally were her kids as much as the ones she birthed before this happened. They just came home when everything had fallen to shit.