To play devil's advocate regarding the particular situation you mentioned, he may be attempting to screen out women who would have an issue with him working with his ex. Otherwise, I cannot think of a good reason for him to bring it up.
Post by starburst604 on Apr 16, 2014 11:07:19 GMT -5
Yeah it would probably be a flag for me. I remember when I tried to start dating (way too soon) after my ex broke my heart, I would bring him up on dates. "Oh you do _____ for a living? My ex did that too!". I actually cringe now to think about it, lol. And I wondered why those guys didn't call me again.
Post by Wanderista on Apr 16, 2014 11:33:03 GMT -5
Yeah, I used to bring up exes more when I was younger but now I really don't. I'm still friends with a few and I'd mention that at some point but not for a while. It isn't important and also there are some things that I just don't want to talk about much anymore, especially with a new guy.
I'd be weirded out by a guy dropping his ex's name like that so early into things.