Vent: It really bothers me when people complain about gaining weight in the 1st tri. What do you think you have special powers where you shouldn't gain weight? Get over it you are going to get a hell of lot bigger before the end of it. Be happy and shut your face.
Confession: I have great sex dreams lately as well but the actual reality of doing it is the furthest from my mind. Not interested at all.
Post by wanderingenough on Apr 23, 2014 9:00:10 GMT -5
bk1 - that confession is great! In college I worked at an after school program for preteens. The program director was about 5 or 6 yrs older than me and was always yelling at the kids. I had a dream once that he yelled at me and we started hooking up. I told my friend about it and 10 years later she will still randomly say: "He yelled at me and then we made out. It was awesome!"
Post by melsamoony on Apr 23, 2014 10:03:24 GMT -5
Vent: My sister is getting married a week from the Saturday and I have been trying to put together a girls weekend for this coming weekend and she is being completely difficult about it. She won't get back to me about it so I can't make plans and I am giving up. It frustrates me because then she goes around saying I haven't done anything for her wedding....because she hasn't LET me!
Confession: I have been reading a lot of romantic young adult books and it makes me horny lol.
Post by estrellita on Apr 23, 2014 10:17:53 GMT -5
Vent: why does AF suck so much?! I was just thinking today that this one and the last were nice and light and now I feel like I've been punched in the stomach. It's bad enough it's here, can't it at least be nice? Grr!
I don't really have any confessions at the moment but I'm sure I'll think of something!
Post by HoneySpider on Apr 23, 2014 10:19:17 GMT -5
I am so fucking tired of being bothered by other people's BFPs, pregnancies and babies. I know no one else's life has a bearing on my own but it is all I ever see anymore. I think I need to go into seclusion for a few months or something.
Post by HoneySpider on Apr 23, 2014 10:22:55 GMT -5
And on a somewhat related note, I am annoyed that AF is going to start while on vacation....so with the spotting before and the spotting after, I will be bleeding pretty much the entire time we are gone. So annoying.
Post by luv2rn4fun on Apr 23, 2014 10:59:54 GMT -5
jjwritergirl- Sorry to hear about the job. Those kind of comments and dealing with employees in an unprofessional manner is unacceptable and very frustrating. Also sorry that you feel like you were mislead about the expectations/responsibilities. Four weekend events in 2 months seems excessive. And, a huge side-eye to pretending to be all Christian but then not following through in their actions (my friend works for a similiar non-profit and I'm amazed at how much un-Christian-like behavior she has personally had to endure there). ((hugs))
Confession: I want to ditch work today. I planned on visiting a client, but they don't know I'm coming. I could just drive straight home and get home at a decent time.
I am so fucking tired of being bothered by other people's BFPs, pregnancies and babies. I know no one else's life has a bearing on my own but it is all I ever see anymore. I think I need to go into seclusion for a few months or something.
Well, at least you're going on seclusion for a couple weeks! Assuming that you're not going to be checking in when you're in Italy, that is. When are you leaving?
I am so fucking tired of being bothered by other people's BFPs, pregnancies and babies. I know no one else's life has a bearing on my own but it is all I ever see anymore. I think I need to go into seclusion for a few months or something.
Well, at least you're going on seclusion for a couple weeks! Assuming that you're not going to be checking in when you're in Italy, that is. When are you leaving?
Nope, not checking a single thing while I am gone! Yay!
We leave in less than 3 weeks! May 12. It hasn't sunk in yet.
Eh, you've been TTC long enough to have a legitimate gripe. It sucks.
Thanks. I try to remind myself my feelings are valid but it's hard not to compare myself to everyone else! Why can't it be as easy as we all thought it was when we were preventing?
jjwritergirl that sounds awful and it bums me out for you because you had such high hopes for that job. I guess the bright side is that it does make you more open to your H getting a new job and moving. Has he heard anything back on the second job? Did anything happen with the counter offer? I may have missed an update and if so I am sorry.
Vent: I love my job but I hate that there is so many politics involved in it. I recently got in trouble at work for something I wasn't able to give my side of the story on. It's been so tense at work lately I have thought of quitting. BUT who else will help these people if we all quit because of politics.
awick14 This is the number one reason I want to win the lottery and go back to school....I hate working in a corporate setting with politics.
I'm not even in a corporate setting.... I'm a paramedic. The government can't decide if we are worth more then we currently make. We haven't had any raise increases in 12 years. (Other then the current raise of $2.50 after 5 years of service, but that's been in place for over 12 years so the wages are the same as they were.)