So a bunch of guys are picking on mp on SO

[flex]

This is why it's not a good ideas for guys to be on these boards.

pandce.proboards.com/thread/318339/interest-full-disclosure

[bangkokdave]

Me too. That guy is a douchebag.

[flex]

I think we're witnessing a full on dog pile. I hope this doesn't become the norm over on SO.

[bangkokdave]

Well, I'm a guy and I'm not that dude. Do you chicks even want guys on your site? I gotta say, I feel like I have my back against the wall here.

[bangkokdave]

Apr 26, 2014 19:06:08 GMT -5 frkls said:

Apr 26, 2014 19:03:06 GMT -5 kooshball said:

She could share the men. geez.




(All these 'guys' seem like the same person.)

this is my guess, too.

i feel like they fundamentally misunderstand the whole gbcn vibe.  c'mon. she "threw him under the bus?"  what did she do? tell his boss that he's a horrible date? tell his mom? publicly fb shame him?  no, she came here to blow off some steam and share a weird comment.  those boys over SO are so freaking sensitive.


As far as that, yeah he kinda jumped the gun there.

[bangkokdave]

btw I suck at posting here. My reply got mixed up in the quote!

[lsea0323]

What??! This place has gotten so weird. Don't mess with my mp, doucherockets.

[Deleted]

OH FOR FUCKS SAKE

[wysiwyg]

For fuck sake, how many men are lurking on here?

[noodle]

I shouldn't have gone and read the thread.

I don't care if men want to participate on these boards.  I do care if anyone rolls in, posts a ton immediately, and starts off by acting like a condescending ass.

That's what I got from the AMA thread.  And I saw even more of it reading that SO thread.

[papie]

Ew
Why do guys want to hang out on a woman forum anyway?

[frank]

I think that it's silly on both parts, I'm not sure if masterpens is a troll or a bot or whatever

but I think there were some useful bits of advice in that, along with some heated or course language

but I think that you're wrong flex,  by saying "This is why it's not a good ideas for guys to be on these boards."

don't you hink that just perpetuates the echo chamber a bit?

sure have standards of decorum and manners, but disagreement and difference of opinion is a good thing and healthy, no?

but I'm admittedly new here and it's an interesting perspective for myself at least
I'm hoping it's not a girls only-boys keep out sandbox

[bangkokdave]

the debate of perception vs reality is an age old one. But to any person, their perception IS their reality. So...

[papie]

Apr 26, 2014 19:12:06 GMT -5 papie said:

Ew
Why do guys want to hang out on a woman forum anyway?

Oops sorry for the dude in this post, I usually try to only be rude behind people's backs.

[flex]

Apr 26, 2014 19:12:22 GMT -5 frank said:

I think that it's silly on both parts, I'm not sure if masterpens is a troll or a bot or whatever

but I think there were some useful bits of advice in that, along with some heated or course language

but I think that you're wrong flex by sayingThis is why it's not a good ideas for guys to be on these boards.

don't you that just perpetuates the echo chamber a bit?

sure have standards of decorum and manners, but disagreement and difference of opinion is a good thing and healthy, no?

but I'm admittedly new here and it's an interesting perspective for myself at least
I'm hoping it's not a girls only-boys keep out sandbox

I fart in your general direction.  And I hope it echoes in your chamber.

[bangkokdave]

Hey MP, I like your glasses and think your pic is cute. BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I'M A CRAZY GUY ON A WOMANS FORUM

[wysiwyg]

[papie]

Apr 26, 2014 19:14:11 GMT -5 bangkokdave said:

Hey MP, I like your glasses and think your pic is cute. BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I'M A CRAZY GUY ON A WOMANS FORUM

I said I WAS SORRY OK?

I gave birth two weeks ago, everyone knows that is worse than PMS.

[bangkokdave]

Apr 26, 2014 19:15:15 GMT -5 papie said:

Apr 26, 2014 19:14:11 GMT -5 bangkokdave said:

Hey MP, I like your glasses and think your pic is cute. BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I'M A CRAZY GUY ON A WOMANS FORUM

I said I WAS SORRY OK?

I gave birth two weeks ago, everyone knows that is worse than PMS.

Everyone knows except the guys.

[meggers5]

I like having guys here. How would I know how to think and feel about things if they weren't here to tell me?






I actually don't mind guys, I just don't like dicks.

ETA: By dicks I mean jerks. I do indeed like dicks.

[missmaddie]

Apr 26, 2014 19:07:04 GMT -5 bangkokdave said:

Well, I'm a guy and I'm not that dude. Do you chicks even want guys on your site? I gotta say, I feel like I have my back against the wall here.

Nope.

[daktor71]

Apr 26, 2014 19:10:28 GMT -5 lsea0323 said:

What??! This place has gotten so weird. Don't mess with my mp, doucherockets.

But in all fairness she was quite unwelcoming to me, in fact to the point of acting like a complete child. Almost as if she we're threaten by the fact some people were okay with me posting and that wasn't in her master plan of GBCN. 

yes I admitted my use of a certain statement may have been a little less than ideal, I apologized and vowed to not utter that statement again. She brought more attention to anything I posted than I could have done had I been a complete DB. 

I tried to contribute a little and was treated as if I had kicked poor stinky, which I'd never do. My opinion is she brings some of this on herself, what's the saying??? He who lives in glass houses shouldn't cast the first stone...or something like that. 

[Deleted]

I am so not usually the one to rattle off the feminist credo, but fucking hell dudes this place is like the ONE FUCKING place we can relax without worrying about being misinterpreted/objectified/perved on/bitched out etc etc etc by guys! Just leave us the fuck alone. FUCK!

[bangkokdave]

can someone tell me what a freaking echo chamber is doing on the interwebs?

[dapotato]

much serious. many sensitive. wow. very spelling/"autocorrect" problems. stop pls.

[lightyears]

this is so fucking weird.

i wouldn't mind gentlemen if they could function in the message board.

but none of these weirdos have shown that they can function at all. someone called mp "cuntish."

fuck that.

[bangkokdave]

Apr 26, 2014 19:20:47 GMT -5 toledo said:

frank, believe me, we have plenty of difference of opinion around, SOMEHOW. It must come as a shock to hear that us gals are not a monolith of groupthink.

holy crap the big words.

[g8gtlover]

not picking on MP....just giving perspective from a guy's POV.

If I was wound up so tight that I got angry over every rejection I've received in life...I would be in a institution somewhere being force fed medications to "lighten" me up (and as someone who has worked in the mental health research field.....that is not a pretty sight seeing someone on more than one behavioral modification medicine).

[eb777888]

With the stuff I talk about on here? No, I don't want guys posting on here and I certainly don't want a male perspective. That's not why I come here.

[Deleted]

DID WE COME FUCKING BARGING ONTO THE MAN FORUM ASKING FOR A GUY'S PERSPECTIVE??? NO! SO FUCK RIGHT OFF PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

GOOD NIGHT RHODA!