Post by jojoandleo on Apr 29, 2014 17:40:24 GMT -5
I added you before I met you!
Yeah, when I dated H, I think I waited a good month of ACTUALLY dating before I added him. It all feels so...personal? LOL. I don't want him seeing all the crazy that is my life before I've got him at least a LITTLE hooked.
Never ever will you be getting early access to my FB. I have it pretty locked down too. I need to cull my FB friends too. I'm starting to take my privacy more seriously lately.
But I'd never ditch my online friends from FB. Bahaha
Shit, my BFF and her BF aren't friends on FB even though they've been together over a year. He has kids and tries really hard to maintain his relationship with their mother, so it's just easier to keep out of each other's FB lives.
I had one guy totally turn me off with pushing his FB profile on me, then he said, "I can't chat well on this app. It's FB or nothing." LOLOLOLOLOL. Mkay. Let me get back to my nothing then.
I started emailing with a guy (more reasonable than FB b/c I am using a dummy account), and his email is something that makes my blood boil at first glace. Reads with the tone of "Get your pregnant, barefoot ass back into the kitchen and make me a sandwich!" I also found out that the phrase is also related to some bands and games that all seem pretty innocuous. I just emailed and asked him what it means. Hopefully the answer is truthfully something that means nothing. Not male chauvinist asshole behavior.
Add Linkedin to the crazy social media mess and I'm right there with ya. Last year I deleted a friend from FB because I couldn't stand her drama anymore and you would've thought I stole her puppy.
I am friends with several people from these boards and Facebook often suggests other posters to me who have mutual friends (I recognize them from seeing pictures on here). I feel like I'm invading their privacy even though I didn't do anything!
I added stbxh before we had met, and that is, how we found out we had a mutual friend. I don't know that I would have gone through with meeting him if it hadn't been for that so I lean towards friending early. My profile is pretty tame though, it's sharing funny pics from George Takei and infertility awareness posts mostly. I am super cool
Post by lexxasaurus on Apr 29, 2014 23:22:00 GMT -5
I have friends from other boards but no SO ladies. I'll have to change that one day!
I think I'd been dating my BF for a month or two before I added him to my FB. And while I'm "in a relationship", it isn't linked to his page. I'm a fairly private person and it took forever to get a picture of the two of us even on there!