Post by stephm0188 on Apr 30, 2014 20:20:05 GMT -5
Today was the second day of arguing back and forth with the school over this stupid IEP BS, and I'm feeling stuck. They didn't follow procedure so I refused to sign off on portions of the document. They're being defensive and not really working with me, and I'm not really sure what my next steps should be. I've always had good experiences before, so this is new. :\
You're doing a great job standing up for your kiddo and making sure he gets what he needs from the school. Don't back down! If you need it, look into an IEP advocate. They're amazing and can really help you work through the process.
We have an IEP meeting in a couple weeks and I'm already filled with dread.
Post by stephm0188 on Apr 30, 2014 20:36:42 GMT -5
I do plan to file a formal complaint. The whole thing has been handled poorly. I was told he'll pass his evaluation and be dismissed from PT before the consent form even came home. That doesn't seem right. Do I sign the consent form to do the eval? What happens if I don't consent?
Post by stephm0188 on Apr 30, 2014 20:52:39 GMT -5
The PWN that came home today said something along the lines of "the district considered continuing services but *kid* based on record review he is within normal limits. The district proposed dismissal from physical therapy."
I have the number for a child advocacy center and will call in the morning.
You're doing a great job advocating for your child. The special education system in most schools is a case of "the squeaky wheel gets the grease", so squeak away!
Check into an area Autism support group/resource. I know you don't have a diagnosis on the spectrum, but they may have a referral for someone who can advocate for you. Someone who knows "the system" and how to get it to work for you.
--Side note: It's absolutely AWFUL that this is how our special education system often works. Teachers and service providers are stretched so thin & can only do so much. Something, someone, somewhere is always losing...and you have to fight if you don't want it to be your child. My heart hurts for the poor kids whose parents don't know this/choose not to pursue it.
Ugh, I'm sorry you are dealing with all of that. I hope you hear back about an advocate soon.
Not an expert, but I believe you can dispute the eval results if you feel they are inaccurate and request an evaluator outside of the the school system. I'm not clear on the law regarding who would be obligated to pay for it, or how much weight the school would give it, but it could be worth looking into further. Keep us posted!