XP: Neighbor passed away today

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We've been in this house for three years, next door to a very sweet older couple. We chat when we run into each other outside, and have exchanged small gifts for holidays. The wife was diagnosed with lung cancer a few months ago, and has been in and out of the hospital. She went back into the hospital last week after having trouble breathing even with oxygen. Every day they've thought she might be able to go home, but it has always been "just one more test." She finally came home two days ago, then yesterday had to go back. She passed away this morning with him by her side.

The husband dropped by to let us know. My heart is breaking for him.

We will drop a card off tomorrow, but I'd also like to bring by some food (maybe something that will freeze well).  Is this something that people do in England?  She always used to cook for him, and I worry that without her he may let his health slip.  I'd like to continue to provide some meals for him. Is this okay? We've always found our English neighbors to be very friendly, but somewhat private, and I don't want to overstep any boundaries.  

[blushing]

When I had my miscarriage last year people brought me/my family food. They were all British. I think it would be appreciated.

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May 8, 2014 13:05:08 GMT -5 jamaicam said:

That's the kind of thing my grandmother and her neighbors would do for each other so I'm saying yes. Just make sure it is something fairly bland and traditional!

Would lasagna be okay?  

[irish]

Cottage pie or shepherds pie? Fish pie?

ETA: I think that is such a sweet idea. I'm sure he will appreciate it, as will any family they may have.

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I've never made cottage pie or shepherds pie, but they don't sound that hard?

[irish]

Not at all hard!

Get some minced beef or lamb (cottage or shepherds pie!) - around a pound of it. The get some potatoes and a packet of Knorr shepherds pie mix (a yellow packet of powder that is the flavouring!). You'll need an onion, some peas and maybe a red/yellow pepper and a squirt of ketchup.

Then follow the packet instructions!! (If it doesn't mention the ketchup add it in after the meat is browned. I also add a beef stock cube - adds depth to the flavour)