It has never occurred to me to be wary of the women in my newsfeed. And there are a fair amount of pictures of women with great bodies in bikinis (vacation pics and stuff Like that, not just random poses lol). It's just never crossed my mind.
I agree this is her religious culture probably but her H is part of that like mominatrix pointed out.
Post by caffeinezzz on Jun 12, 2014 18:39:20 GMT -5
I can't even read this kind of stuff. It saddens me to think people genuinely think this way.
And, FYI, lots of stuff out there is photoshopped. I'm in the gym regularly, am a size 2-4, and I have cellulite. Thanks, mom, for the genetics!!
Re: my husband checking other women out...whatever. He's a nurse practioner and works with 90% women. Just because he may find someone else's ta-tas hot, doesn't mean he appreciates mine any less. Mine are the ones he gets to touch. Of course there are other women who are hotter than me. I'm secure enough in myself and my marriage that I don't give a fuck. Huge boobieezz aren't what make a marriage.
Damn I really feel sorry for him. It's one thing to have no self esteem but it is quite another to not trust your husband to see women he is friends with sunbathing on social media. It sounds like there is no trust there at all.
Does she never let him watch TV or walk outside? I mean, if she is this insecure about pictures on Facebook and Instagram I can only imagine how much worse it has to be if her husband sees scantily clad women in real life.
I just can't imagine life like this and switch between sadness for her and irritation because I don't want her issues.
Post by omgzombies on Jun 12, 2014 20:31:57 GMT -5
First off:
Psh, I am damn sexy and no where close to a size 2. My husband knows this. I know this. Being sexy is an attitude, it has nothing to do with whether I feel comfortable rocking a bikini. Also, please don't stop posting pictures of yourself in a bathing suit on the internet, this goes for men and women. I need a little eye candy out there, and it's fun to look.
Also my rack is fab and people should be so lucky to have any part of it in their marriage, whether it be side boob, a hint of areola, or both of the girls in all their glory. It's that awesome, I'm pretty sure it could institute world peace.
and of course this:
DH isn't going anywhere cause some young 20-something posted some beach pics.
Post by missmaddie on Jun 12, 2014 21:43:41 GMT -5
This reminds me of that blog that circulated last year about how one mom wasn't allowing her teenage sons to be friends with girls on social media if they included bathing suit pics or an errant bra strap - and since she was FB friends with all the girls too, she'd know.
You can show then to me. I promise it won't ruin my marriage.
It's because you're a woman and therefore not visually turned on like those long-suffering menfolk.
For the longest time my facebook profile picture was of me jumping off a boat, wearing (gasp) a bikini. I can only imagine how many marriages I ruined.
Post by jeaniebueller on Jun 13, 2014 6:01:52 GMT -5
She has a really simple minded view of the world. My husband finds other women attractive, but that doesn't take away from the fact that he finds me attractive too.