Umm so we've been separated for two years, divorced 1.5 I have not seen him, nor have we had any non-business related conversation since I left. I find him totally repulsive and I think he's a total idiot.
About every three months he crops up and does something ridiculous and includes but is not limited to:
Creating and posting a YouTube hate video about me
Buying my website domain name and threatening to post REALLY tame boudoir shots taken on our wedding day
Threatening to me to small claims court for his "services rendered" for following up with our real estate agent and hiring a lawn service (that I paid half of)
Oh and he leaves voicemails and texts telling me about "another wonderful day in his amazing life with his amazing and way hotter GF." Congratulations?
Now that the house is sold, today we had to pay all the final utilities bills and we never have to have contact again YAY! He sends this email. I'm DYING laughing. LET IT GO.
I'd like to say it was nice knowing you but it was an exercise in what not to do I thought if I got married and bought a home life would just fall in place. But I never found you very attractive but thought you were stable and would never leave. But I'm glad that you did. Life after our divorce was initially difficult but has been much better ever sense. Try to be better to other men in your life. I hold no ill will as I have met an awesome woman and were going on 15 months strong. Hopefully you have found some happiness in your life asidef rom TV and food. Take care..
Sounds like someone still isn't doing to well with being told to take a hike. That 'awesome woman' he's with now must be really doing the trick since he obviously still hasn't gotten past the bitter, childish phase.
Omg thank goodness all ur busn is done! He clearly cant be that happy with his "awesome" woman if he still writes u and makes stories about u every few months. Wish i could hand out lives to people who needed them. What an asswipe. Im sorry pdx
Post by usedtobebear on Jul 18, 2012 17:11:35 GMT -5
This is hillarious, I lol out the last line 'besides TV and Food', I also love how he has no Ill will against you yet he he clearly does, funny. Glad you can laugh and not get upset... I'm just waiting for the fall out with my stbx, I'm sure he'll act similar for the nex few years...
Umm so we've been separated for two years, divorced 1.5 I have not seen him, nor have we had any non-business related conversation since I left. I find him totally repulsive and I think he's a total idiot.
About every three months he crops up and does something ridiculous and includes but is not limited to:
Creating and posting a YouTube hate video about me
Buying my website domain name and threatening to post REALLY tame boudoir shots taken on our wedding day
Threatening to me to small claims court for his "services rendered" for following up with our real estate agent and hiring a lawn service (that I paid half of)
Oh and he leaves voicemails and texts telling me about "another wonderful day in his amazing life with his amazing and way hotter GF." Congratulations?
Now that the house is sold, today we had to pay all the final utilities bills and we never have to have contact again YAY! He sends this email. I'm DYING laughing. LET IT GO.
I'd like to say it was nice knowing you but it was an exercise in what not to do I thought if I got married and bought a home life would just fall in place. But I never found you very attractive but thought you were stable and would never leave. But I'm glad that you did. Life after our divorce was initially difficult but has been much better ever sense. Try to be better to other men in your life. I hold no ill will as I have met an awesome woman and were going on 15 months strong. Hopefully you have found some happiness in your life asidef rom TV and food. Take care..
What a douche for real. AND he sounds just like my ex. Mine would constantly email or call me (at work, didnt have my cell number) to tell me about how great his new life was without me and how happy he was.
Although mine would tell me about his engagement (broken after 6 months), THEN new "amazing chill girlfriend" who turned out to be a stalker and FINALLY now his Vegas cocktail waitress girlfriend that he really wants to have his kids. He even sent me a picture of them partying together on a souvenir tequila bottle ala spring break at Cabo Wabo noting how hot she was (her makeup looked like it was Paint by Numbers style). The man is 35 years old.....I cant make this crap up for real......
This behavior screams that they truly arent happy as they appear and just realize we're the best thing they ever had!
Thanks all! I thought you might enjoy that. And yes the "sense" is one of my favorite parts. The YouTube video is really the very best one though. He details his sexual exploits, gives a tour of his "new pad" chugs a beer and even has background techno music to a song called "Suck my Dick." He also tells me how fat I was and then pans the camera down to show how much weight he's lost. Honestly I watched it and I was in TEARS (of laughter). Like I cannot make this shit up.
Thanks all! I thought you might enjoy that. And yes the "sense" is one of my favorite parts. The YouTube video is really the very best one though. He details his sexual exploits, gives a tour of his "new pad" chugs a beer and even has background techno music to a song called "Suck my Dick." He also tells me how fat I was and then pans the camera down to show how much weight he's lost. Honestly I watched it and I was in TEARS (of laughter). Like I cannot make this shit up.
Oh wow. Yea, all you can do is laugh because he is obviously not over any of it if he still feels the need to "run it in". Yea, you are much better off without him
Wow! What a DB! I am embarrassed for him for putting that on youtube! I just kept thinking he probably won't be making all that extra money if his employer ever saw him and all his craziness!!
I watched the video too and have so many questions about it. How did you find out about it? Did you find out during your divorce proceedings? Did you use it in court against him? Showing a judge all of his douchetasticness would have been epic!!!!
The video shows how pathetic and not over it he is. I mean he's saying how great his life is and how everything is better, all the while fighting back the tears. You are definitely better off without him!
I watched the video too and have so many questions about it. How did you find out about it? Did you find out during your divorce proceedings? Did you use it in court against him? Showing a judge all of his douchetasticness would have been epic!!!!
The video shows how pathetic and not over it he is. I mean he's saying how great his life is and how everything is better, all the while fighting back the tears. You are definitely better off without him!
He emailed it to me when he posted it. The best part is that it originally was a public link he sent at like 2am. I got it early in the morning when I woke up. About an hour later (I'm guessing when he woke up) He RESENT me the link only now I was "invited" to view his private video. At least he had some sense to take it down publicly. I didn't use it for any court hearings or anything because our divorce had been final for about six months at that point. Based on references he makes in this video he filmed it about 2-3 months after I left, but posted it like 15 months later.
I have consulted with my lawyer throughout all of this craziness just in case he does something really crazy. But really I just document it all and save it. The best part is I have NEVER once responded to anything. Clearly I've been too busy eating and watching TV