Sadly, I think I might know what she's getting at... According to my ILs, all gay people have AIDS and should be avoided.
Not only do they not know the difference between HIV and AIDS, but apparently they weren't listening when I mentioned that I have several gay people in my family.
Donor Deferral for Men Who Have Had Sex With Men (MSM) The top priorities of the American Red Cross are the safety of our volunteer blood donors and the ultimate recipients of blood. On June 11, 2010, the Department of Health and Human Services Secretary's Advisory Committee on Blood Safety and Availability voted against recommending a change to the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) policy of a lifetime deferral for men who have sex with other men. The FDA is responsible for determining donor eligibility requirements and the Red Cross is required to follow their decisions.