I just paid off another bill

[Bernadine]

I hope xh is still checking the account and sees it. That's right asshole, I'm paying for the house you're living in AND paying shit off.

HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW? lol.

[LLL]

you rock!

[cleo29]

this is awesome.

I am still confused as to how he gets to live in the house and yet contributes nothing to upkeep. Is he paying the basic bills there?

[alzi]

You rock.

[partiallysunny]

Yay! But why are you paying for a house he is living in?

[hubes]

You are going to have a whole butt load of good karma with this whole think is over. And you are going to look awesome in court.

[Bernadine]

Jul 20, 2012 10:17:30 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

this is awesome.

I am still confused as to how he gets to live in the house and yet contributes nothing to upkeep. Is he paying the basic bills there?

He is paying cable and electric.

Basically, the house is in both of our names, so he has just as much of a right to live there as I do, regardless of who is actually paying the mortgage. MD is effed up. I've consulted a few lawyers, they've all said the same thing.

[Bernadine]

Jul 20, 2012 10:21:12 GMT -5 hubes said:

You are going to have a whole butt load of good karma with this whole think is over. And you are going to look awesome in court.

This makes it a little easier to keep paying the bills.

What I'm really hoping is that I can use the mortgage/debt thing to keep him out of my retirement fund.

[cleo29]

Jul 20, 2012 10:24:48 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Jul 20, 2012 10:21:12 GMT -5 hubes said:

You are going to have a whole butt load of good karma with this whole think is over. And you are going to look awesome in court.

This makes it a little easier to keep paying the bills.

What I'm really hoping is that I can use the mortgage/debt thing to keep him out of my retirement fund.

Why would he have claim to that? And it's so generous of him to pay the lesser amount of the bills. 8-D

You're a better woman than I. ({)

[Bernadine]

Jul 20, 2012 10:24:59 GMT -5 Lucy Honeychurch said:

Please tell me you're keeping a running tally of these expenses and will demand them back in the divorce settlement.

For sure. I have a whole spreadsheet.

[iamgrace]

You're amazing. Seriously.

[speckledfrog]

Awesome!

[partiallysunny]

You ARE amazing.

[ax2]

Woo! Congrats! Such a great feeling to pay something off, but doubly so when you're screwing over a d-bag in the process.

[kellbell191]

I hope you nail his ass to the wall. In a non sexual sense.

[sneetch]

Congratulations!

[mudslide]

You rock, lady!!

[Bonita]

Congrats! I know how good that feels :-)

I'll keep my fingers crossed this works out really well in the end! :-)

[mrsjuleshs]

Congrats! I can't wait till you can finalize this whole mess and really stick it to him.

[daisyheadmaizie]

Way to go!

[sprky79]

You're 2/3 of the way to filing day!

I think we need to throw a virtual party for you on filing day :-)

[gretchenindisguise]

This is great! Way to go!

[pantsparty]

[underwaterrhymes]

Congratulations.

I think you're so awesome, by the way. It's really sad for him that he fucked up so bad because he lost an amazing wife.

[eb777888]

Haha!
you=awesome

[bab]

I seriously want to take you out when this shit is over. Go Bernadine!!!