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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I mean...it's not like I'm passing out my social security card at GTGs. Some people have become close friends, some people I'll probably only see at GTGs. I can't predict if someone is going to go gypsy on me.
I don't think you're a creeper. I had gtg issues happen at prior and unrelated to GBCN and was always anti-gtg when I came over here. Ask saraandmichael - I told her the same. Then this week... damn.
Post by kristinschmistin on Jul 10, 2014 8:51:47 GMT -5
I would say I trust the people I've met at GTG most. Next would be people that others have met at a GTG and can vouch for as far as "no, doesn't seem to be a serial killer", and next, people who have posted a while but haven't met anyone IRL, and last would be the crazies.
But from my experience, I've seen people go completely batshit even if they've been to a gtg. I think there were some red flags though... So it's all relative.
I think I trust too much but I would probably only do group GTGs rather than one on one juuuuuust in case. Except for people I've already met at previous gtgs. I don't know why I meet people and then I feel fine, someone could easily skin suit me on the second or third lunch date.
VeryViolet I better leave NoVa with skin intact. I will NOT rub the lotion on my skin and I don't want to be any part of your lampshade.
I've got nothing worth stealing, my identity isn't worth taking, and I'm bigger than like 95% of the people here so the skinsuit would take a lot of altering and effort.
I spent the night in the home of someone I'd just met with like 20 other women I'd just met for my first GTG. I was not shanked, skin suited, no one smelled my hair in a creepy way (that I know of), no one even drew dicks on my face while I slept.
We were however accosted by a possum at one point.
I am way too trusting but have the advantage of not really being able to travel or venture out that much. So I was able to take it slow with all the locals and meet other people through them and it's been lovely.
I don't know I guess it'll be tough for me to get into drama because I'm boring when it comes to that. I don't entertain much dirt discussion and I'm easy. Don't get hurt or offended with friendship woes.
I didn't have any trepidations about meeting a handful of the Florida folk at Ceviches years back. I figured none of you would poison my sangria. Also we need to do this again.
Trust your instincts, steer clear of drama and have a wonderful time. Looking forward to pics!
I didn't have any trepidations about meeting a handful of the Florida folk at Ceviches years back. I figured none of you would poison my sangria. Also we need to do this again.
Trust your instincts, steer clear of drama and have a wonderful time. Looking forward to pics!
To illustrate vino and I are equally flaky and have been planning to gtg for months. We live really close and always one of the two had to postpone. But I still love her and I'm patiently waiting for it to happen.
I think I trust too much but I would probably only do group GTGs rather than one on one juuuuuust in case. Except for people I've already met at previous gtgs. I don't know why I meet people and then I feel fine, someone could easily skin suit me on the second or third lunch date.
VeryViolet I better leave NoVa with skin intact. I will NOT rub the lotion on my skin and I don't want to be any part of your lampshade.
Well that frees up some space in my basement at the end of the month.
Just kidding I live in NoVa we all know I can't afford a basement to skin suit in!
I am pretty trusting of people in general and when all of this stuff goes down I am always kind of shocked at the things adults do. However, I have also only ever met Curly so maybe I am not that trusting. LOL
I didn't have any trepidations about meeting a handful of the Florida folk at Ceviches years back. I figured none of you would poison my sangria. Also we need to do this again.
Trust your instincts, steer clear of drama and have a wonderful time. Looking forward to pics!
To illustrate vino and I are equally flaky and have been planning to gtg for months. We live really close and always one of the two had to postpone. But I still love her and I'm patiently waiting for it to happen.
I am a ginormous flake. What are you doing a week from today lol? Want to meet at Cooper's Hawk for dinner? :Y: :drink:
Post by schitzengiggles on Jul 10, 2014 9:24:14 GMT -5
I am very trusting, until someone shows me I should feel otherwise. I meet strangers all the time via a running group I lead. But it's not like we meet 1:1 in some dirty underground bar or something! There are always a group of us, and it's always somewhere public.
There are certain people that might ping on my BSC radar every once in a while. I wouldn't meet them if they ever wanted to do a GTG. No matter how curious I am to see how BSC they are in real life.