Because you've been so supportive. My mom has a pretty grim prognosis. She was in the hospital last week and the docs have given her about 3 months. She is deeply depressed and her brain is swollen and her meds and new tumor have rendered her pretty unrecognizable (wrt her personality). I was with her all week. Going back soon. In the mean time my 4 sisters and nephew and I are taking turns there so my dad won't be alone and to care for her. I don't know what else to say :-( Thank you for the love and prayers and good thoughts. She's ready to let go now. I wish she still had fight in her because there are a few more options but it is clear she is done. I'm trying to wrap my head around losing her. My sister is so close to having her first baby ( mine's not due until January) and I never thought she'd miss it. It's hard.
I wish there was more I could do/ say than add my also very sorry If it helps at all, focus on your dad. Sometimes maintaining/ doing whatever you can do for the mental health of the person you DO have control over can be a helpful distraction. (From personal experience) Also, even though seemingly impossible now, do whatever you can to try & separate these memories from all the great memories of your life w/ your mom. Again, so many hugs & so very sorry
I'm sorry. I lost my Dad last year and it's hard. Sounds like your Mom has a great support system and a wonderful family. I wish for peace for you all.