My sister went to church camp last week. SIL and my brother went as sponsors. While there, my sister felt convicted about some personal things that she and her boyfriend had been doing. She and her boyfriend had been texting about it because he was not there.
One night my SIL did not go with the group to service. Some of the girls came back early and caught my SIL on my sisters phone. My sister said it was opened to the texts from her boyfriend. My sister didn't say anything at the time because she didn't want to start drama and felt weird confronting SIL without my parents there.
Yesterday the youth pastors wife came to my mom and said that SIL had told her about the messages she read! She said that my SIL said that my sister needed help to save her from her sinful ways! She told my mom that she said that she was SO glad that she read those messages when she did.
Then we find out that she has told FIVE other people!!! One was someone in her class at school!!
My sister calls her out on it and she says that she did it because they weren't close and she knew my sister wouldn't come and talk to her.
I'm just so livid. I cannot even think straight. I want to kick her in the face. My poor sister is humiliated.
Post by snipsnsnails on Jul 29, 2014 14:38:17 GMT -5
Ah, the good old 'I'm going to out you for the sake of saving you' tactic. Yep, still super awful no matter how many times I see it. Sorry for your sis. It sucks.
Did your mom set her straight about her nosy nelly ways. How families don't gossip about each other and respect privacy. Maybe she could end it with "I'll pray for you"
Bitch SIL is your brother's wife? So your sister's SIL? Just making sure I understand the dynamics.
This could NOT be any more inappropriate. And what the everlovingfuck is SIL doing gossiping with her own SIL's HIGH SCHOOL classmates?
My god, I hope your mom as her MIL or dad as her FIL, brings down the HAMMER. I cannot imagine how fast I'd make O's spouse's head spin if I heard s/he was gossiping with others about L. I'd freeze them out so fast they'd lose their minds.
God. I'm angry as HELL just thinking about it and my son is 9 months old.
Why the fuck does your SIL think that your family members and their personal lives are any of HER fucking business, let alone the business of her random friends?
Although, given how comfortable she felt pulling this shit, I can't help but feel like she has done similar stuff before without consequences?
Does she normally act like a self righteous twat?
SIL is fucking crazy cakes. We have known for years but we usually ignore it. However, now that she has messed with baby sis then shit is hitting the fan.
Post by mrsukyankee on Jul 29, 2014 14:50:19 GMT -5
That woman would be out of my life, my kid sister's life and everyone's life. In fact, she would no longer know life because she would be dead. What a super C-U-next-Tuesday.
So are the parents on your sister's side or SIL's side? Cause some religious nutters would try and "save" your sister instead of confronting the real problem which is the invasion of privacy.
So are the parents on your sister's side or SIL's side? Cause some religious nutters would try and "save" your sister instead of confronting the real problem which is the invasion of privacy.
My parents are 100% on my sister's side. SIL is being called out for the invasion of privacy.