Close call last night- update, he saw us

[Bernadine]

I met T for drinks downtown. I'm sitting at the table, we're talking, I look out the window- xh is standing outside of the bar across the street smoking a cigarette. I wanted to die. He must have gone outside 10 times to smoke while we were sitting there. Either he didn't see me, or he decided to ignore me. Thank God!

I keep worrying about running into him at an Orioles game. I have NO idea what he'd do if he ran into me, especially with another guy. Ugh.

Update- this is the email I just got from xh, lol.

You got a real winner there huh lol. Dorks

[peachykate]

I agree with booby! If he confronts you while you are out with T he is just going to look like a giant douche.

I am very happy for you that it is going well with T.

[Bernadine]

He'll definitely look like an ass, I'd just feel bad dragging T into the craziness.

He did tell me last night that he's dated a few divorced women, and they were a little nuts, but that I seem stable so far, lol.

[cleo29]

Oh, I wonder if he did see you and that is why he stepped out so many times.

What he would say should not matter because he is not in a place to have an opinion that matters. I'm so proud of you and I want to hear more about this mysterious T.

[jerseygrl]

Oh, that's mature. And what makes him a winner? Your ex not bf.

[jerseygrl]

Jul 26, 2012 9:55:00 GMT -5 puddleofgrace said:

You should email him back.
"Yes, and it's about time."

OMG YES!!!

[MrsBunnyfoo]

Wow his lack of maturity astounds

[VeryViolet]

Your XH is a fucking idiot. Please do not respond to this it will drive him crazy.

[Deleted]

Jul 26, 2012 9:59:01 GMT -5 @smace said:

Print it out for the divorce lawyer and don't respond. He's miserable and lonely and to make himself feel less like a loser supreme, he's trying to antagonize you.

excellent idea.

he's a child. thank god you'll soon be rid of him. and yay for T!

[gozf]

Ugh. He is the worst. I'm sorry this happened.

[cleo29]

I knew he saw you.

[Bernadine]

I'm absolutely not responding. My life got so much easier when I started ignoring his shit.

I don't think he was following me- he was there for a concert, with his friends.

[Nicole]

What a doucher!

I am glad you are ignoring him. He wants that power over you to still be able to get a reaction out of you. That is exactly what that comment was about.

[ThirdandLong]

He called you "Dorks" ?! Well, at least it's clear he's never passed primary school. What's next? Neener neener boo boo?

[annyong]

Dorks? Lol.

I'm glad you're having a great time with T!

[Deleted]

Your ex is pathetic, so enjoy that aspect of it. I'd keep a copy for the lawyer too.

Atleast he didn't do anything obscenely crazy while you were out!

[spedrunner]

Jul 26, 2012 9:57:51 GMT -5 VeryViolet said:

Your XH is a fucking idiot. Please do not respond to this it will drive him crazy.

I agree. Ignore. It lldrive him nuts

[poppyseed]

What a giant asshole.

[ErinExpat]

The best revenge is living well.

And it's fucking killing him.

Print and ignore, it will eat him up inside. Mwahahahaha

[kellbell191]

He's an asshole. Document the shit out of it and if he bothers you in the future you might be able to get a no contact order. Maybe then you could boot him from the house...

[Marle]

You excraddle robber. Your ex is 12!

[Lauren88]

What a loser to email that to you! Definitely ignore it because it will drive him crazy all day long!

[gault]

He saw you looking happy - happy without him.

Good for you for not responding. Having gone through a rough divorce, it's the not saying anything back that antagonizes them the most. lol.

[eightangryreindeer]

What an ever-loving fuckhole of stupid.

gah!

good riddance.

(and yes, it goes straight to lawyer)