That's great Evelyn. Happy for both of you. Sticking close to the program has helped me more than I could explain. The AA weekends are always inspiring. Plus he'll broaden his circle of AA friends.
You have a good head on your shoulders. Keep remembering you aren't able to control his actions, only your own. Easy to say, difficult to do, but with practice, you'll remind yourself almost reflexively.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
You are doing a great job, even if it doesn't always feel like it. You are ackowledging the issues and taking steps to work on them. That is the best any person can do. I am so glad your H is taking steps for his recovery and hope for both of you that he continues. Relapses are almost like a start over in the trust game so it is going to take some time to get back to trusting him, but it does come back with time.