Travel Anxiety

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Later this month we are going to my brothers wedding. It is about 5ish hours away and adult only, so we decided to make a weekend of it and leave the boys here. Which is fine. They will be staying with my IL's who I trust and know that the boys will be well taken care of. But I have horrible anxiety any time I think about DH and I traveling together by ourselves in a car far away. We have both traveled on our own since the boys, but never together. So now I have all of these irrational thoughts about how if we get in a wreck, we'll die together and the boys will be orphans and ohmygodwecantgoonthistrip.
I am seriously not that anxious of a person, so I don't know what to do. I mean, we have to go to the wedding, and it's probably not reasonable to drive in separate cars. lol.


Someone please talk me down.

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Yeah, I clicked on the wrong board. Sorry. Lol.