Look, I think the idea of having sex while breastfeeding is really fucking weird and not something I could ever do. But don't we women spend a lot of time convincing others that breastfeeding is not sexual in any way. It is a natural act that can be done anywhere, even in public, and at any time the baby is hungry. Here you are saying that breastfeeding stimulates the nipples and involves the baby in the sex act. I think that is a huge stretch.
Biologically speaking nursing stimulate the nipples in order for the baby to obtain milk and for the body to release oxytocin. I was not using the word stimulate to say that this hypothetical person (she she has clarified that she did not do this) got pleasure from the act of breastfeeding.
It is not unheard of to get pleasure from BFing though correct? Like certainly not common at ALL, but it has happened?? I thought I read somewhere about women having accidental orgasms while BFing...kinda like that birth orgasm thing .. ( I am a FFer so I have NO experience here.... except I am pretty sure noone has ever had an orgasm from washing baby bottles?)
Biologically speaking nursing stimulate the nipples in order for the baby to obtain milk and for the body to release oxytocin. I was not using the word stimulate to say that this hypothetical person (she she has clarified that she did not do this) got pleasure from the act of breastfeeding.
It is not unheard of to get pleasure from BFing though correct? Like certainly not common at ALL, but it has happened?? I thought I read somewhere about women having accidental orgasms while BFing...kinda like that birth orgasm thing .. ( I am a FFer so I have NO experience here.... except I am pretty sure noone has ever had an orgasm from washing baby bottles?)
I orgasam all the time from doing dishes, i don't know what you are talking about.
Anyway, yes it is possible to get pleasure from breastfeeding. I did not experience it and probably would have been uncomfortable if I did. But oxytocin is released during breastfeeding and released during orgasm, which again is why the idea of mixing the two really squicks me out.
In nursing school our instructor told us that some women feel aroused while breastfeeding. I was horrified and sure I'd heard her wrong but then xojane ran an article that had a link to this website, it's really a thing:
It is not unheard of to get pleasure from BFing though correct? Like certainly not common at ALL, but it has happened?? I thought I read somewhere about women having accidental orgasms while BFing...kinda like that birth orgasm thing .. ( I am a FFer so I have NO experience here.... except I am pretty sure noone has ever had an orgasm from washing baby bottles?)
I orgasam all the time from doing dishes, i don't know what you are talking about.
Anyway, yes it is possible to get pleasure from breastfeeding. I did not experience it and probably would have been uncomfortable if I did. But oxytocin is released during breastfeeding and released during orgasm, which again is why the idea of mixing the two really squicks me out.
The suds? The running water? Oooooh yeeeaahh HOT STUFF!
It gets steamy by the sink! I'd like to scrub your pots AND pans... eyebrow wiggle.....
I orgasam all the time from doing dishes, i don't know what you are talking about.
Anyway, yes it is possible to get pleasure from breastfeeding. I did not experience it and probably would have been uncomfortable if I did. But oxytocin is released during breastfeeding and released during orgasm, which again is why the idea of mixing the two really squicks me out.
The suds? The running water? Oooooh yeeeaahh HOT STUFF!
It gets steamy by the sink! I'd like to scrub your pots AND pans... eyebrow wiggle.....
i am glad you are here to break up this riduclous post where everyone now thinks I am a crazy person.
People keep talking to me and I have to keep responding, I have issues with that I admit. I will back out and will continue to feel how i feel. Others can feel how they feel about it. Doesn't really matter in the end since this is the internet I suppose.
People keep talking to me and I have to keep responding, I have issues with that I admit. I will back out and will continue to feel how i feel. Others can feel how they feel about it. Doesn't really matter in the end since this is the internet I suppose.
You are NOT a crazy person. You are less crazy than someone claiming they had sex while tandem nursing and then back pedaling. You honestly were worried about what you percieved to be a sittuation of abuse. Given the history you have shared with us I understand why you have a " spidey sense " about this post. You are a really caring person and always have been on these boards.
The biggest tragedy TODAY is that the paper clip porn got deleted. Cause that was really really funny.
I've absolutely beaten dead horses on here. I suppose I'm just ready for this one to be a thing of the past. Especially considering all of the vague info. It's mostly speculation, folks.
I am so uncomfortable with the insinuation that cinnamoncox is an animal.
Damn can we disagree with her actions without the histrionics?
Thank you. If your hormones cause PPD or PPA we are supportive. I've heard some people express some amount of sympathy for moms who have actually harmed their kids. But a high sex drive makes you an animal and now perhaps foster parents would be better for your kids?
She did something inappropriate while in a PP haze.
I can agree with this. My issue was mainly two things. 1. When it was thought she was having sex while nursing which I think is very inappropriate. But I believe it was misunderstood and it was while bottle feeding. So while I still find it weird and innaprproitate I don't think it's the same level so to speak. And 2. I didn't like that people were saying she has twins as if that justifies anything people do because you know, twins are hard. My point was I think that more was at play than simply having twins, something like ppd, ppa etc. Because otherwise I dont see how you couldn't control the urge until after you finished feeding the baby.
This probably belongs in the confessions thread but I'm not clutching my pearls. Even with the original story. And I was assuming OP was nursing the twins.
DH and I aren't about to try it this weekend. NMS, but I was impressed OP's nursing skills. But now there were bottles.
Still, point is: I'm not calling CPS.
I'll sit with you. I was just jealousE of her drive. But I also didn't read her OP as though she was feeding (bottle or otherwise) during actual intercourse.
I had like, amazing drive during my first pregnancy. I wish it had stayed after I gave birth. Heck, I hoped I would have a similar drive during my second pregnancy, but no such luck.